My BFF got really mad at my other BFF, and now they aren't friends anymore! So, now I have to spend time with them at school seperately. They both told me that they didn't want me to choose sides, and I don't plan to. Is there any way that I could get them to make up, so that I am not stuck in the middle? I tried talking to both of them, and the one that is mad has her reason, and the one that isn't says that it was all a misunderstanding. How can I get my BFF to understand, and talk to my other BFF, so that they don't fight???
It's a complex question, but I REALLY need help!!! I don't know what to do!!!
-Kimmy
2006-06-05 10:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by Kimmy <3 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know that this sucks but....welcome to high school honey. Girls in high school and mean and vicious and petty all at the same time. I feel for you. I wish that I had a better answer for you. I had a BFF for about 14 year and I love her with all of my heart and there have been times when things between us were not so good, but we have worked things out one issue at a time. Have faith that a true BFF will be there forever and they will understand what you are going through. If not...they are not what they seem. hang in there and BE YOURSELF. Let them deal with thier own issues.
2006-06-05 12:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Okay..Frally here to the rescue. First things first..you need to tell them seperately..that life is just to short ot be a hater. Ask them do they really want to live their life being mad at one another? They probably don't. Also, tell them that you need them to be friends, because it is making you very unhappy to have them fighting.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-05 12:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kimmy, I think your just gonna have to leave it up to them. I mean, you told them how you feel. Tell them that they are making it too hard on you. Good luck.
2006-06-05 12:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck
2006-06-05 12:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by cruizo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Let them be. They don't want u to choose sides in the first place.
2006-06-05 12:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by k m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first guy in basic terms needs to to have something to do i imagine you need to go away the first reason all he needs you for is a great time the 2d one fairly needs to get with you and be conscious what you're about him him a probability bypass out on some dates with him and be conscious how that is going.
2016-12-06 09:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by mance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if u gots another BBF, then hang out with her....so ur two other friends that u wont stand hanging out with two separate BBF.....show them that its ridiculous....thats happened to me before and this is what i did: i talked to them separately and heard both sides of the story...i spent some time and such and talked about this whole dilemma....i hope it works out...i hate those situations...
2006-06-05 12:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by abreal2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to grow up
2006-06-05 12:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by john p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish u all the best
2006-06-05 12:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋