之前我問過咩叫,答案如下:
http://hk.knowledge.yahoo.com/question/?qid=7007032404367
咁點突破曖昧關係?
2007-03-25 18:22:04 · 1 個解答 · 發問者 ? 4 in 家庭與人際關係 ➔ 其他:家庭與人際關係
OK, if you want to 突破曖昧關係, you are taking risk ...
meaning you both may not be friends again if stuff won't work out !
bear that in mind ...
突破曖昧關係, start from REMOVING THE 曖昧, say something like this ...
"Don't you know I love you for so long ....?, don't you know everytime you talk to other ladies or kiss other ladies ... I feel so painful .... I do my best already ... do you understand ... ???? I love you so much that I can sacrifice my own feeling for so long, but recently it come to a point I can no longer handle it ... please let me love you ...."
I tell you the above may not work ... but that is a GOOD way to 突破曖昧關係 ...
of course, I seen it work before .... the guy actually cry with the lady ... and hug each other passionately ... and the girl start to kiss the guy and they just kiss for minutes .... the guy say, I am sorry ... to make you feel painful for so long ... blah blah blah .... and I think it works out very fine in this example ...
but if it don't work out, you guys can no longer be friends .... because one side break the rules of the relationship ... and ask for more ...
anyway, your call ....
there is no easy way to 突破曖昧關係 ... because 曖昧關係 is created by both of you to HOLD ON to a relationship with so many UNKNOWN ....
if the UNKNOWNS are clear up, it become KNOWN or GIVEN ....
and no more guessing and expectation ...
it will be replace with HAPPINESS (LUCKY) or DISAPPOINMENT (NORMAL)
good luck la :)
2007-03-25 22:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by alien3333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋