究竟佢有冇鐘意我?!

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究竟佢有冇鐘意我?!
我鐘意左個男仔幾年
識左好多年.中1已經識.以前細個好fd
但分班後,開始疏遠..但我地仍keep住聯絡
msn.icq,電話,每次都係我搵佢,佢從來唔搵我

我因為佢同bf分手,,(同我分手bf,以前同佢都好fd)
同佢示愛,拒絕左,因為有alevel要面對,佢話alevel後再算,
但我覺得佢係因為好鐘意佢以前個girl fd囉."!
近年.我同佢成日單獨出街.上佢屋企,坐o係床度傾計,成日睇戲.唱k!
大家d行為都幾close,,會 i 住睇戲.唱k,幫我咩袋,,有時會"橋"手行,
我以為有機.再示愛.又拒絕,
佢係好男仔.學校dream man,外表好,有風度,好nice
我問過佢好朋友,係咪對個個女仔咁,但又唔係

佢自己都講笑話俾左好多次"第一次"我."!

究竟佢有冇鐘意我?
點解男仔會咁樣?!
我朋友話佢拖住我!拖拖拉拉個拖...

唯一一次主動打俾我
被佢拒絕之後,隔左好耐,我同個男仔一齊,好快散左
咁arm.我o係電話cool煲失敗.一收線.佢就主動打左俾我,得知我唔開心.///足足關心左幾個鐘"!
補充時間：2007-03-19 02:40:57

Answer 1

Miss,
sorry to say, from the above, all I can say he is a gentleman,
and you are one-sided loving him.
He is more treating you like a friend ...
There is no special meaning that he did all those little things for you.
He will do the same to his sister and lady friends. Take it easy.
You had been rejected for couple times, and you are still waiting for him.
Meaning you really like him .... and you really want to have him as BF !
Stop hurting other boys in between, because all those boys are just substitution
being used by you, because your heart is over that DREAM-MAN you are pursuing ...
Now, how to win his love ? Hard to say, since if he is a nice man like you described, He has it own CUP OF TEA, and he always know he deserve someone
he really like with his gentleman style and fine conditions ...
He is not HOLDING on to you, YOU are HOLDING ON TO HIM ....
so I give you a little suggestion, stop seeing him quietly .... don't create any drama ... no crying, no nothing, just disappear ...
Don't call him, don't see him ....
Since you already show him that YOU LOVE HIM ... and there is nothing you can do more ... on your side ... so it is time for him to do something extra for you ...
so let him MISS you ... let him feel that YOU MEANT IT ....
and when he finally look for you .... and ask .... "Why you disappear ... ?"
You said "I really love you, but I don't want to hold on to you too much, while you don't have interest in me .... I want to provide you with breathing room !"

and he will do the rest !
OK, I think he will definitely look for you ... the above idea should work ...
if you don't have confidence that he will look for you .... then ... don't execute the idea ... because you are not ready ... to believe you have the power to make him do something for you ....
Courtship is an art .... you need some manipulation on minds ...
good luck ... I think I give you some ideas ...
Stop seeing all those other boys because the more boys you saw .... the dream-man may think you are flirty ... and not a good girl that MATCH him .... so be smart ... and HUNT for this DREAM-MAN ... and if he does not look for you ...
it is TIME to move on and forget him .... and let him be your friend ... a brother ...
and stop wasting time with him ...
Good luck :)

Answer 2

我覺得佢對你似fd多過gfd~
既然佢係中2你ge，
gum點解兩次都要拒絕你?
既然佢只係想同你做朋友，
gum你示幾多次愛個結果都會係一樣lor~

或者，
佢比較適合做你ge知己la~

Answer 3

我都覺得係拖拖拉拉個拖........
if 佢and u d行為都幾close , 就應該 L 你la...
but 佢又拒絕u..........我覺得機會好微