我喜歡了一個男生...
我比他大兩歲....
但他外形很高大...樣子也看似比我成熟...
他也是喜歡我的...
但我家人很介意男比女小而戀愛的問題...
我身邊很多朋友對此也很有偏見...
我應該怎樣做才是呢?
應該跟他開始嗎?
我二十...男生十八...唉...
2007-03-16 08:05:19 · 7 個解答 · 發問者 Anonymous in 家庭與人際關係 ➔ 其他：家庭與人際關係
差兩年只是一個很少的距離, 港產前丹麥皇妃都跟一個細她十二年的男人結了婚啦, 只要兩個人真心相愛, 又有什麼問題? 用你們的真愛和誠意, 再加上時間, 去證明給反對的人知道, 你們的愛是不怕年齡障礙, 也經得起考驗的吧.
2007-03-16 08:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
你系love他的丫``根本不用理人別人的啊~最重要系你love他系5系~~ 其實年齡5系1個問題黎ga!!
2007-03-16 13:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by yishang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
差兩年只不過是差好少, 估唔到今時今日香港已經有咁多女性與年紀比自己小的男性一起仲有人在這個問題上睇唔開? 連娛樂圈都有不少例子, 你身邊的親人朋友就算在自己識的人之中沒有姊弟戀, 都應該有睇娛樂雜誌? 男比女小已經好普遍, 有什麼問題? 他們要講, 最多話你男朋友只有18, 拍拖可能比較早, 但隨著你們年紀漸大, 你們之間的距離會越來越少, 因為兩年的時間在一個人的一生來說, 真的只佔好少, 這點點距離對年紀較小的一方來說很容易就可以趕上和克服.
用行動來證明你們是可以一齊的罷! 不用害怕. 有很多人的戀愛都不能令身邊的人接受的, 但拍拖的是你們兩人, 真正感到開心和幸福的也是你們兩人, 其他人實在沒有資格指指點點.
祝幸福!
2007-03-16 10:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
的確...年齡唔係一個問題...更何況...只有兩年既差距...都唔係好多je~~
雖然佢細你兩年...但佢既處事方式會唔會都成熟過你呢??
我有d男性朋友...雖然大過我幾年...但事實上...佢地既行為/處事方法都好細路仔...
要俾你屋企人/朋友知道,雖然個男仔細過你...但同時佢都係成熟過你...絕對有能力去照顧你既感受~~
如果你屋企人/朋友真係錫你既...我諗佢地都會想有一個有能力既男人去照顧你...而唔係淨係想一個年紀比你大既男人去照顧你既~~
唔好因為一d小問題(或者...呢個根本唔係一個問題),就放棄/錯過一段感情呀~~^^~~
2007-03-16 09:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by crazys7788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
佢細過妳唔係一個問題, 呢d 野基本上都冇年齡限制
而且, 妳地唔做d 咩野影響到自己學業或事業的話
其他人俾咩偏見, 也冇話可說
只要妳地一齊得開心, 就唔成問題
2007-03-16 08:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Colin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem, go for it ...
2 years are nothing who cares about how others see it ...
so many example, sister-brother relationship ...
you are not old ... if you are 38, and he is 36 ... I would not recommend
you jump into it ...
but if you are 20, and he is 18, why not ...
just get some experience, love experience ... is very important ....
make sure financial independent ... and no one is using each other ...
keep the relationship PURE ... either for love ... either for SEX ...
when have sex, always ask BF wear condom, safe sex ...
love ... must have an ending ... so either get married or have sex ...
But I will say, don't think .... if you like him ... he like you ...
(for love, for sex ...) go for it ...
NO ONE SHOULD BLOCK YOU ...
Those friends, if they are real friends, they will respect you ...
YOU NEED TO BE VERY CONFIDENT ... because some other ladies
will race with you for that man ... so how to get a man is easy ...
how to keep him around is tough ...
good luck :)
I support you....!!!
2007-03-16 08:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by alien3333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
你自己真係鍾意一個人, 點解要理人地d 睇呢????
唔通佢地叫你同邊個一齊就一齊呀????
真係鍾意佢就同佢講. 唔係就會後悔啦.
good luck!
2007-03-16 08:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by kaka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋