算八字, 請高人指點一下姻緣, 萬分感謝 (20分)

Question

本人跟拍拖很多年的男友分手了, 請高人指點一下, 我們會復合及結婚嗎? 我的真姻緣何時才會出現? 麻煩各位!!!

(女) 農曆甲寅年9月30日申時
(男) 農曆丙辰年4月21日酉時

alien3333
謝謝您的答案, 但我是第一次在這裡post question．您說得很準確，他真的很內向及被動, 但分手是他提出的, 而且他做事比較深思熟慮, 不會輕率作决定, 正因為這個原因, 我不敢再找他, 害怕打擾及增加他的壓力, 因他工作十分之忙碌, 亦希望尊重他的決定, 我知道自己很矛盾, 分手後我以為自己可以放下, 但到今時今日我仍然很掛您他, 所以希望知道大家是不是有緣可再走在一起.

Answer 1

Miss,

I think I answer you before, the issue located at that your bf,
does not care much and he is quite prudent or passive in a relationship.
You are more goal oriented, you need a result, while he may just
looking for a random relationship.

If you want to get back together and escalate to marriage, you need
to push him a lot more, otherwise, he won't take action for you.

You guys do match in a lot of way, you are active, he is passive.
You are talkative, he is quieter ...

so good luck, there is chance only if you treasure him enough and want to
keep him and generate a result.

alien

女:
"社交生活越精采，熱鬧過後更落寞；想要抗拒誘惑，卻也不甘寂寞。
獨自一個人的時候，總是感到孤單；兩個人的時候，卻開始懷念自由。
也曾經想過隨便找個對象作伴，但事到臨頭，卻仍舊無法從中獲得真正的"幸福感"。
經常對感情產生懷疑，是單身的妳，感到寂寞的最大原因."

男:
"天生實際派，面對愛情就是少根筋。
浪漫指數偏低的結果，生命裡雖然偶爾出現意中人，
卻無法發揮「快、狠、準」的愛情狩獵守則，只能眼巴巴地看著愛人被其他豬頭追走。
除了捶心肝，也只能怨嘆老天爺對你太不公平！"

2007-02-28 03:31:13 補充：
大吉, he is over practical and over down to earth, since he may feel
relationship is a burden for him to move forward in his career.
be supportive and still treat him as friend, if you still like him.and be the lady next to him. One day he will realize how important you are.
Good Luck

alien

Answer 2

自從失戀後,看到路上成雙成對,就格外放閃,嘴巴瀟灑說只是少一個人來愛,但不可否認還是希望可以多多認識新的朋友,
往認真爬文3個月以上,終於找到隱藏在網路中,傳說中的李姐,
在今年3月初就預約來找,果然是口碑相傳,不做廣告的,我排第3次就遇到雙方非常有感覺的,目前是暫停排約,
李姐那邊可以暫停排約1次,會員時間可以展延拉長時間,也在這段時間可以觀察對方.
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