愛的承諾
有女性雜誌希望我在情人節前，分享人生最動人的情話。原以為這是很容易應付的訪問，結果我想了半天，才能找到答案。
我年少時愛看愛情小說，要到大學時期才初嚐戀愛滋味。有次我問初戀情人：「有朝一日我們結婚，你會將所有收入交給我嗎？」他想也不想便答：「不可能！你的(錢)是你的，我的(錢)是我的，家庭開支到時各自分擔。」
聽到他的答案，心裏忽然有把聲音跟我說：「此人嫁不得。」我想，錢財身外物，連金錢也可以分得那麼清楚，仍然要有所保留的話，將來他要隱瞞的事還有很多。
後來，遇到第二任男友，拍拖數月後我也問他同一條問題：「他朝有日我們結婚，你會將所有收入交給我嗎？」男友答道：「好的！拿去吧！」那時他的收入是我的兩倍，結果我們拍拖半年就決定結婚，今天我們的婚姻已踏入第十年。
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2007-02-15 19:19:39 · 2 個解答 · 發問者 Liar大話精 6 in 家庭與人際關係 ➔ 其他：家庭與人際關係
Not recommended at all !!! COMPLETELY WRONG VALUE SYSTEM !!!
I don't like her BS answer anyway. She care for money so much ...
Relationship is not evaluated on this kind of situation.
(1/2 year and get married, no way ... )
She act like she is in control of everything ... of course not...
I feel so happy for his first love to take off, he won't be happy with this kind of lady.
We are back to the old days, that a stupid man stuff a BANK RECORD BOOK
to a lady and say, "Honey, that is how much I have in the bank", and the lady said
yes, "Please build a family together" ... Bullshit completely.
Money can be a resource for building a family, but not a relationship.
At the beginning of a relationship, NO MONEY SHOULD BE INVOLVED.
After years of understanding and commitment, then start to talk about future in finance.
that is the proper way to approach a relationship ...
Anyway 張慧慈 is a lady in power, like to take control, she does not care about
what is love, the base of the relationship is power and money and a man that can allow
her to build her career ... that was it ...
alien
2007-02-16 02:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by alien3333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
張慧慈好白痴. 雖然我係女仔.
互相猜忌,心中其實又係為了錢錢錢,為了錢拿更大利益轉男友嗎?
令人作嘔的愛情觀,呢D根本唔係真愛.
如果倒轉：
男仔說：「有朝一日我們結婚，妳會將所有收入交給我嗎？」
女仔答：「不可能！你的(錢)是你的，我的(錢)是我的，家庭開支到時各自分擔。」
男仔心裏忽然有把聲音跟他說：「此人娶不得。他想，錢財身外物，連金錢也可以分得那麼清楚，仍然要有所保留的話，將來她要隱瞞的事還有很多。」
令人作嘔的愛情小說.
2007-02-16 04:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋