Alright I'll write this in English. I was just thinking I would reach more readers writing in French. Sorry I suck at it. Anyway, my boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago because he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. But ever since then we've been hanging out as friends and it's been fun. We haven't kissed or had sex or crowsed that line in any way. But he has said that when he's ready he may want to hook back up but I want things back the way they were. How do I do that?
2007-11-17 17:58:28 · 11 réponses · demandé par Marilyn F 2 dans Amour et relations ➔ Amour et relations - Divers
Sorry, it is not possible : Time is passing only one-way.
You might have a new , different relationship with your boyfriend, but never "the way it was".
2007-11-17 18:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by mémé léone 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good question, anyway...to help you and the french side of Yahoo Q/A, I am pleased to translate your question in french....
...Mon petit-ami et moi avons rompu il y a environ 2 semaines parcequ'il a dit qu'il n'était pas prêt pour une relation. Mais jusqu'alors nous sortions comme des amis et c'était sympa. Nous ne nous sommmes pas embrassé et n'avons pas couché ensemble ou franchis ses limites en quoi que ce soit. Mais il a dit que quand il serait prêt il reverait sa position, mais je voudrais que les choses redeviennent comme avant. Comment puis-je faire?
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In my opinion, he was not really your boy friend but a very good friend. And that makes a big difference... I mean that saying a boy is your boy-friend without even a kiss or crossing the famous line in any way, is a little bit strange.
I think that he olny wants both of you to be good friends and that is all. You asked maybe for more, he gave you his opinion. He seems to be a nice guy ... :o) ...the trouble is that now there will be a strange feeling between you and nothing will be like it was...the time will maybe change a thing? Good luck!
2007-11-18 02:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by evabouba73 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were meant to go back together, he will tell you when. If you push him, he may go away. You may tell him though that you miss some closeness you had. Maybe you should find someone else if things don't move in a while for no specific reason. Good luck!
2007-11-19 08:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI !
Are you sure you want things back the way they were WITH HIM ? Or you just want to be back in a love relation ? Maybe you are just missing a love relation but maybe NOT with this guy ?
Often we think that we would like to love again someone but in fact we only want to love and to be loved again...which is not at all the same!
Try and think about it : do you really LOVE this guy and that is why you would like things to be back the way they used to be with him or do you MISS LOVE ?
If you are sure that you want things to be the same with your boyfriend, just tell him so and if he still tells you that he is not ready, present him with an ultimatum and make it clear that you do not want to beat about the bush any longer....and MOVE on, life is short and do not waste your time with him !
If he really cares about you, he will react...but often men are evasive and do not want to take initiative...they prefer to find excuses and wait for women to decide...maybe that is what he is doing...make also sure that he has not started another story with another girl...I am sorry to tell you that but that is how they may behave in such a case.
Anyway, I think that you are the one who has to take the decision and you will certainly feel better once you have made up your mind.
Good luck!
2007-11-18 02:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You were told to ask your question on an english web site, not to ask it in English on a french one...
(sorry if my English is as much ununderstandable as your French ;-)
2007-11-18 02:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sarabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tu t'es trompé de pays !
2007-11-18 03:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Psyco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We suck too..Sorry
2007-11-18 02:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mi ne komprenas bone vian demando.. Mi bedaùras
Eble en la franca lingvo mi koprenus pli bone...
Ghis revido !
2007-11-18 02:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
désoler je suis née en France donc je parle français et non pas étranger si tu veut qu'on te répond traduit ton texte
2007-11-18 02:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by la mignonne 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
on est en France, donc tu parles français pour avoir des avis de français, sinon va au States ou en GB, la ils te répondront dans cette langue...but any way, we don't care about your ******* life....suck him.....maybe th'at the solution......
2007-11-18 02:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Alejandro El Grande 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋