I am sorry that I must ask this in english, please answer in english.?

Question

This question is directed to men German men 30 and over. Must foreign woman I know that are married to German men complain about the lock of sex in their lives. Most foreign woman specially of Latin, or african origen are very sexual creatures, yet they complained that if left alone, German men would have sex three times a year. Why is this? why they do not have a normal sexual appetite of at least once a week as a minimum? can an educated men answer this question.? Also a survey conducted with foreign men married to German women, complained as well how cold they are in bed compared to their latin, americans, africans etc. It is well known around the world that German are cold in bed, yet they make good spouses in all the aspects except the bedroom.

This question is directed to men German men 30 and over. Must foreign woman I know that are married to German men complain about the lock of sex in their lives. Most foreign woman specially of Latin or african origen are very sexual cre

Answer 1

I think you have to look at this in different ways and request the reason why in some realtions it is as you have discribed. First take a look at an average couple, married since 10 year and maybe having children. It is, I think, quiet normal that the interest in sex is going down due to an every-day-routine in life. Due to that, if they have different needs and sexual appetite, they will look for an affair to fulfill their wishes. If the are open minded and modern they will do it together in understanding aubout refreshing their life. If they don´t it will mean that it is the end of the relation.

It is only one aspect of the routine of long lasting relations, there are also many other possibilities to fresh up a boring one. I don´t think that it is common, that a couple only has three times sex a year. If it is like that I would feel very tolerant for that part in the relation looking for fun. Libido is natural given.

Ich denke da gibt es mehrere Wege die Gründe zu hinterfragen wie du sie dargestellt hast. Als erstes solltest du mal einen Blick auf ein Paar werfen, dass meinetwegen schon 10 Jahre verheiratet ist und vielleicht auch Kiner hat. Es ist, so denke ich, durchaus normal, dass das Interesse an Sex mit der Zeit durch die Alltagsroutine nachlässt. Aus diesem Grund, wenn ihre Triebe unterschidlich stark ausgeprägt sind, werden sie Affären haben um ihre Bedürfnisse zu befriedigen. Wenn sie offenen Umgang miteinander pflegen, werden sie es in gegenseitigen Einvernehmen ausleben und ihr Leben auffrischen.

Es ist allerdings nur ein Aspekt einer langlebigen Beziehung und es gibt noch viele andere Möglichkeiten sein Leben aufzufrischen. Auch finde ich es als ungewöhnlich, dass ein Paar nur 3 mal Sex im Jahr hat. Wenn dem so wäre, hätte ich vollstes Verständnis für eine solche Auffrischung. Die Libido ist naturgegeben

Answer 2

eigentlich sollte man ja dann mal versuchen einen der 'german' schreibt ins englische 'answers' zu holen... und es gibt auch genug deutsche die sich dort ihre punkte holen, also...

so long
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Answer 3

First and foremost I would think that your English sucks. Just wanted to mention... I wonder where you are from and why you're asking for an answer of an educated German - are you definately sure you'd understand it? Okay, in case you would: German men are mostly well known as being creative and most satisfactory in bed - that's why guys like you are probably jealous and try to provoke reactions with questions like that. So guess what: Get a life dude, and try to get some reactions in your own bed...errrr... I mean in your own little country. Greetings from Düsseldorf, Germany, center of sexual world....

Answer 4

wir dürfen aber nicht auf englisch antworten, weil man dann denjenigen melden kann , wegen Verletzung der richtlinien von YC siehe Missbrauch