Some People Say I Won Some Say I lose. The problem is when i get off of suspenion people are going to be saying hahah you got beat up , you dont know how to fight and a whole bunch of mess Should i not say one word the whole day of school what should i do i asked before and people said just ignore them but if i ignore them they are going to keep saying it and the dude i got in a fight with is talking about me bad on his myspace what should i do i need advice
And pray that when i go back to school after the holiday break everything goes good
2007-12-20 07:26:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wiseone K, I will pray that violence is finished in your heart and mind and that peace surrounds you always. Remember that no weapon formed against you shall prosper. Fear not, the Lord is with you. Always in Jesus' Name, Amen!
2007-12-20 09:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Semp-listic! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad situation
1) Pray.
2) Talk about it if you want.
3) Admit to the truth. If he did beat you up, he did. So what? So he is bigger and stronger then you. There is someone bigger/stronger/tougher then him. Does that mean you should go get someone to beat him up?
4) Ignore it if you want. Will be difficult, especially if this person gets up in your face again. If that occurse, you have to decide how to act... think about it ahead of time.
5) Talk to the admin, see what they think you should do... try to have a serious talk with them... don't let them just do the ignore it statement... let htem know you want to really talk about what to do.
6) Talk to your parents. (similar to #5)
7) Talk to your friends. They are the only ones you should really care about in the school setting.
8) If you really are nervous, look into self defense classes... but don't talk about taking them or brag. It takes a while before you really know what to do. It is almost easier to beat up a low ranking belt then a someone who hasn't taken any classes. The low rank belt will often try to stop and think about what to do and hesitate/mess up.
9) Decide if you really care about their talk. Realize it will eventually go away. No one can continue to go on about this forever. It will resurface occasionally, but not for more then a mention.
10) Realize that you could always hurt him. I am in no way suggesting you do this. I am just saying you need to realize there are always ways to beat anyone. Just knowing you could do
It isn't easy. If you continually have them 'in your face' about it, you may have to make a decision about continually having to report it to the administration. If he wants a rematch, tell him you'll only accept if he'll fight you in the office. If he refuses, you'll be able to point out he must be scared if he won't do it there... You'll even let him take the first punch!
Tough situation.. I went through high school being picked on, teased, etc... Which is why I now have a second degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do and have taken other styles as well.
2007-12-20 07:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ray M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will pray for you. I have been in a similar situation, and the best thing you can do is leave those people alone. In a week or so, once they see you don't care what they say, they will find someone or something else to pick on. When they pick on you or say a rood comment, just look at them and start laughing hysterically. They will feel either weird or dumb as you walk away..good luck and god bless!
2007-12-20 07:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by 4-GiVeN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, Walk in there with your head up and look them in the eye. Smile big and let them wonder. Just tell them your lawyer said you couldn`t discuss it and SMILE big..
It doesn`t matter what they say or think.. I assure you by this time next week there will be something new to talk about and you will be old news..
I am keeping you in prayer. God does hear us.. Be blessed and don`t worry about this.. The world is such a big place this will pass very quickly, but you can`t run and hide from it. You must face it squarely.. It is, what it is...
Peace and God bless from Texas. <><
2007-12-23 06:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have been fighting in the first place. You should just ignore what other people say and if they keep bothering you about it so what, and so what if the other guy is talking about you you made your bed now you have to sleep in it. Be like Christ and forgive him for what ever he did to you and move on and forget about the whole thing and next time try to love your enemy and pray for him instead of beating up on him. Peace be with you
2007-12-20 07:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bride of Christ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this will blow over faster than u think thank God for the holiday break that will help things be forgotten just do ur best not to talk about it if someone gives u a hard time just laugh and blow it off
and no more fighting!
2007-12-20 07:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lee's Wife 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Sounds like a battle of the wills to me.
I pray that you find better friends.
Keep a safe distance from your enemies.
And know that God is only going to answer prayer, if you are seriously keeping in touch with Him daily.
Good luck and God bless you!
2007-12-20 07:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by C Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray and eat humble pie. When they try and bug you, smile and laugh it off. They want you to be confrontational.. If they get you to react, they will get their jollies from that. It you stay cool and laugh it off, they will soon get tired of bugging you, get bored with the issue, and leave you alone.
2007-12-20 07:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bibs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...turn the other cheek and if the s.o.b. gets in your face again...punch him right in the solar plexus as hard as you can...man can't breath...man can't fight...just kidding....
Actually the best thing to do is ignore the idiots because they will get tired of taunting you like all rodents do...if the bone head you fought with gets in your face again for another round...strike first...strike hard...remember the solar plexus...pushing and shoving is for girls...
***Please tell us you didn't start the fight...because if you did I'll tell you that you're getting what you deserve...
2007-12-20 07:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I will pray that it is forgotten too. I wouldn't say much about it. Maybe that it was a mistake and that is it. Seek God, and He will give you peace.
†Prayer Warrior At Your Request†
2007-12-22 02:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by electroprayer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋