Women want to be treated equal until you catch one sleeping around with a lot of guys then they tell you it's because they are trying to figure out who they are. How come if I dated a girl and cheated on her I would be an asshole and everyone would look down on me? When a woman sleeps around or gets drunk every night or cheats on her boyfriend. It's ok because she's just trying to figure out who she is in this world and we shouldn't be mad at her. Does being a women relieve you of thought and responsibility?
2007-11-28 05:06:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And you bought this crap from her?? If she cheated on you, then that's it! She is not trying to figure things out..she is a heartless liar
2007-11-28 05:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by tramimaus 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Trust me it is NOT acceptable for a woman or a man to sleep around. I've experienced just the opposite though. Most often it is the men who get the high fives and atta boys for having multiple partners. Or "game" if you will. If she cheated then there is no excuse. Just dump her. She isn't good enough for you anyway. Find someone who will respect you and your feelings. Remember guys have feelings too. Too often people think that guys don't care if they get cheated on. Like they're robots or something. You're still human and it still hurts. So if that's as good as she can treat you then ditch the *****. Also if she cheated and all she can do if further insult you by making excuses rather than just taking responsibility then you definitely need to move on. Good luck to you. Sorry you've had to deal with the ugly monster of infidelity.
2007-11-28 05:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by YouAsked 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it absolutely doesn't. Women want to be treated equally therefore should be judged equally. I personally think bad of women who sleep around, cheat on their boyfriends and get drunk all the time. I don't care what her excuse is. Women who make up excuses like that just don't want to be blamed for her actions. And most people I know think the same.
2007-11-28 05:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Smile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if we're going to stereotype and insult genders - I've found that the opposite is true. Where I'm from, men who cheat get excused, "they can't help it, they're men". Women who cheat are labeled with colorful names.
It is not okay to go back on a commitment for either gender and to try to excuse it as a way of 'finding yoursef' is lame.
I would suggest trying to meet a better class of women. Maybe ones that don't hang out in bars, looking for someone that's breathing and able to buy them a few drinks.
2007-11-28 05:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by T. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women who cheat and sleep around are looked down the same as men. But they say this because it sounds better than I'm a big slut!
2007-11-28 05:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by angel of senn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand how sleeping around with everyone has to do with finding oneself. Sleeping around (my opinion) randomley and putting yourself at high risk, by not using protection and or getting drunk etc, has to do with self esteem. I know some women who just like sex, and enjoy pleasing men, but they are being safe about it, *i would hope*. This woman you are referring to must have low self esteem and is treating herself how she feels she needs to be treated.
Finding oneself would mean spending time alone, or doing things you enjoy and clearing your head of fog and negativity.
The actions of the one you mentioned are not of that.
Lose that one. Negative energy is a waste of time.
2007-11-28 05:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chastity and modesty went out the door many years ago. As a woman if I do not respect myself noone will respect me. Your body is not for sale but for the man who will eventually become your husband.
It also starts with the way women dresses. You can tell a lot from the way they speak, dress and smell.
2007-11-28 05:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what world are you living in that approves girls sleepin around and being accepted for doing so??? nah thats not how it works man. real simple. if a girl sleeps around and gets caught doing it, regardless of what she sais, she is a ho in the eyes of the public. some people accept it and say shes jus being human. guyz are different. if a guy goes around and sleeps with a ton of gurls, in the eyes of the public, they are recognized as players. generally woman call us assholes if we do so. our guy friends would most likely compliment us on it. in general, sleepin around is a BS excuse for a woman to find herself. we as men actually have it easier.
2007-11-28 05:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rock star dreams 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman isn't going to find out who she is by sleeping around. To find herself she needs to forget about any sexual relations and figure out what she wants and who she is. She isn't finding out anything by sleeping with anyone. She needs to seriously think about who she wants to be. I think she is using that line as an excuse to make it ok for her to sleep around.
2007-11-28 05:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm actually when a girl does it she is a slut and when a guy does it he is a pimp. I don't do that though. I have never slept around whether I have a boyfriend or not I think it is something that is supposed to be for someone special.
2007-11-28 05:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Viking799 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, more guys cheat then women. And it's MEN who are congratulated for cheating women look like sluts and whores. Get your facts straight. Unless you been living in a cave.
You just pick bad women, There are good ones out there. You just have to be more selective!
2007-11-28 05:09:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋