He let me move in with him a few weeks ago because my parents are total losers and they hate me. am very protective of him.i love him hes the sweetest guy ever.
i cant stop myself from blushing whenever he hugs me,he always hugs me even when we are out with friends but they think its just cause we are close friends.but i want him as my boyfriend.but i really like his girlfriend and he does love her alot.i wish i spoke to him sooner.i read his questions.he used to fancy me.i lost my chance now.
alls fair in love and war?should i take that saying to heart?should i flirt with him.
love from ryan.
2007-06-18 06:28:48 · 17 answers · asked by dusk_to_moonbeam 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
p.s.he does not look in on here until friday night so i am safe to ask this question.
2007-06-18 06:29:29 · update #1
Hon I would say you lost your chance for now. You say he loves his girlfriend and there is a chance that if you told him your feelings you would lose his friendship also
2007-06-18 06:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
woah you do know everything about him!
if hes got a girlfriend who he loves then hes probably over fancying you, and now appreciates you more as a friend- you seem to be really close, espesh seeing as he let you move in (if he fancied you he might feel uncomfortable, or might even try it on)
maybe you could try flirting, he might respond if he likes you, otherwise he'll just think you are acting strange, from that point in depend on the kind of person that he is and if you could tell his response to the way that you are acting
personally if your friendship is really important leave alone, dont risk it, if he breaks up with his girlfriend then maybe try something...?
2007-06-18 13:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by coy carp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably talk to him and let him know how you feel. Alway, always be honest. Ask him how he feels about you and let him know to be honest also. Situations like this are unpredictable but being honest with each other is very important and needed in a close friendship like you both have. Dont worry about what his girlfriend thinks, this is between you and your friend at this time, after your talk, its up to him to talk with his girlfriend.
Things happen for a reason...if its meant to be it will happen, if it doesnt stay friends, you never know when you might need each other in the future.
Take care and good luck!!
P.S.
Dont flirt with him, it might make him feel uncomfortable
2007-06-18 13:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by dark_flame81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well as a friend you should be supportive of his relationship and keep it at that. I'm sure it will be hard and he might have feelings for you still... But wait and see, but in the meantime move on with your life. You can still like him, but don't do anything to make him break up with his girlfriend. If they break up that's your chance, but don't be the reason. Be careful and just be his friend. :)
2007-06-18 13:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jyse 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Right my answer can be crap but don't want to write anything that can damage your friendship/relationship and as well - I don't know you.
That's why I ll be really care full and just write what I think it would be best - listen to your heart and do what u feel like u want to do.
And about that flirting - can go right, can go bad. may be risky
Hope that u will sort this situation really soon
x
2007-06-18 13:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by LoveLucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least open you e-mail so I can reply to you COWARD!
I have 3 kids of my own you freak, don't you DARE suggest That I support child abuse!
Hello EMMA©
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Message: so you support children being abused?*smirk*sorry i cant waste my time on trollops.
love from ryan
I am not a trollop, so run along and watch Jemery Kyle, as you can't be bothered to get a decent education!
2007-06-19 07:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
keep the way you are, don't take the risk, he will break your heart and you will break your friendship with him and his girlfriend. stay cute and watch another better chance. make sure he does want you then you have more chance to win cos i think you have no much choice here.
2007-06-18 15:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your probably best to leave it as you'll only end up hurt in the long run! Probably best to try and move on!
2007-06-19 04:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you two stay friends i tihnk its for the best - his relationship with his girlfriend probably wont last forever, but you as a friend will always be there for him, so leave it until he wnats something to happen - good luck mate!
2007-06-18 13:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may still have feelings for you. You might want to talk to him, but try not to force things on him, and don't try to get him to like you out of sympathy.
2007-06-18 13:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by Iacobus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋