This is a no-nonsense question. I need some serious answers please.
Thank you!
2007-05-17 08:21:32 · 21 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Cry. You have to do it. Then just keep yourself busy with friends and family. Not so much to forget about the person but they would want you to be happy too. If you are able, call, write, send care packages, make silly videos to show them all that they have missed. Most of all love them, and smile for the way that they touched your heart. Remember that rain is tear drops from the heavens joyous and and sad. Hang in there. You will get through this though time. *hugs*
2007-05-24 03:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by FuriousRain007 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't let it interfere with you living your life. I have certainly been there, and I really do empathize with you, but I think you need to be able to live your life and be happy and/or productive no matter who is around you or who is far away. Although death is another matter, the same theory applies. But missing someone can be a good thing too. It shows you and all the world that you really love or care about that person. Above all, I think that being able to live your life independent of any one certain person essential. Your happiness shouldn't be contingent on anyone or their actions. And this doesn't mean that you have to love the person you're missing any less... just maybe that you should think about the situation differenty.
2007-05-21 13:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by victoryalliance2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in contact, tell the one you're missing that you were thinking of her/him. It'll make their day!
Pay a visit when you can, if you are on good terms. If not, try to mend things up a bit before just showing up. It'll be a relief to get rid of any negativity too, if that's the case.
Sometimes you can live for so long missing someone, even trying to just let the feeling pass. Sometimes it just doesn't. Keep in touch with her/him as best you can. And tell them you care, really it means a lot to hear that from time to time.
2007-05-17 10:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by kcneale 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to keep busy and involve yourself in different activities - especially social activities. This is a great time to try that hobby or activity you've been wanting to try. Take an adult education class, go hiking with a singles group, go dancing, take your dream vacation, volunteer. I've found that getting on the singles sites and chatting with people helped me get over the last breakup. You'll also broaden your horizons at the same time.
2007-05-21 14:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is someone I can contact ( and it is okay to do so) then I call, even for a minute to hear the sound of their voice. If it is someone that is out of your life but still alive- do not stalk them! Do not sit and look at pictures and videos of them so you make your self miserable! Watch a sad movie that makes you cry so you destress a bit. Then call a friend to go out or get a funny movie to laugh a bit.
If it is someone that has died (my dad) I do look at pictures and I tell stories about him to my kids- it keeps him alive in a way and they love to hear about him.
I hope your heart mends soon.
2007-05-22 16:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something about it. You only get this life one time...why sit around being unhappy. Go there! You'll remember it the rest of your life, and life is meant to be an adventure. Don't be a wuss/
2007-05-24 12:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by SoCalChick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Book a flight, give them a call, write a letter. Missing someone is part of our lives, it helps us appreciate when they are there so much more. You will be ok.
2007-05-17 08:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry Darling 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can't get in contact with them by phone or e-mail, then try to stay busy doing other things until they return.
2007-05-24 12:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by barbwire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with time it will get easier Im not sure of your situation. after 3yrs it still is very hard you never forget! keep busy very busy . do a whole lot of praying and its ok to cry go have yourselph a crying moment . keep busy
2007-05-23 12:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by HEIDI 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my fiance works out of town, i have gotten used to it now but at the begining it was super hard. i used to call or text him a sweet message. i started sleeping with one of his t shirts with his cologne sprayed all over it. that helped but didnt make it any easier. i counted down the days til he would come home and when all else failed i would hop in my truck and drive the 12 hour drive to visit him for one whole day and then go back home. we finally bought a video camera and before he would leave while i was at work he would leave me a video message on the video camera. it would be silly like him making funny faces to make me laugh and it worked.
2007-05-17 09:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋