Honey i've tried just about everything there is to try with this jewish meatball. I don't know if i'm just being to subdle by telling her she looks like she swallowed an acordian or what, i'm kind of scared to hurt her feelings because she is my boss, too and I don't want to get fired and have to go back to rubbing Stanley's pizza size nipples and watching him releave himself on the couch every time I want something. She is married to a Gay man, how pathetic is that? Help me find the right things to say!
2007-05-16 09:58:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Just tell her. Honesty is the best policy. If she takes it too personal, that's her own problem. Getting a makeover rocks! Not to mention it's fun! And married to Gay man? Oh good lord she has issues...I love my gay men (i'm a faghag), but I would never marry any of them! Sheesh...lol
2007-05-16 10:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Water Witch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about calling the "What Not To Wear" show? Also, Maury Povich and Montel Williams do makeover shows several times a season.
If that is out of the question, I might recommend just asking if she might be interested in 'trying out a new look'. Even offering to go shopping and trying to have her try on something she normally would never even fathom wearing might be a great place to start.
If you are going to have a conversation, I would definatley try working along the lines of: "You have such great _____, I would love to see you in a _______. That would look so amazing on you and really show off those great ________!"
2007-05-16 17:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by amBRIGZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a heart to heart does not get this done, perhaps a very subtle and kind way of achieving this is to suggest that you both get make overs. You could also get some other friends involved.
A last ditch effort could be to nominate her for a make over show. However, the chances of getting chosen are slim.
Good luck!
2007-05-16 17:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dyan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it would be a nice birthday present and just surprise her. I'm not sure how sensitive your friend is , but I adore people that do something that nice for someone !
Sometimes you can tell if a makeover would make them feel better about themselves also. She has to be willing to participate.
2007-05-16 17:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its looks take her out to the spa or do that nick at night makeover sign up for it for her and then make up a cheesy excuse like oh becuase you work so hard and if its weight say i wanna get a work out but i dont wanna go alone would you come with & its win win situation
2007-05-16 17:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're not serious, because if you are then you aren't a very good friend. If she feels like she needs a makeover, she will decide on her own to get one. She doesn't need to be put down by her best friend/subordinate.
2007-05-16 17:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So you think its Ok to be gay and be your self but then you think your best friend should change the way she looks because you dont like how she looks ?
2007-05-16 17:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff Carter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karen, Grace looks fine as she is.
Go work your magic on Jack--he needs some help!
2007-05-16 17:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this supposed to be funny? It isn't. It's rude, vulgar, and poorly spelled and punctuated. You need to do some work on yourself before you start on anyone else.
2007-05-16 17:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by Alice K 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a group makeover. then when everyone tells her how good she looks and how easy it will be to keep up, maybe she'll do it. ps - can't her gay husband give her fashion advice???
2007-05-16 17:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋