This is a doosy. Obviously, you have a problem with being comfortable with girls. There is nothing anyone can do to help you if you don't make the move yourself. If you have never said anything to this girl the whole year and now you're wanting to ask her to the prom - you'll probably get a firm 'no'. She doesn't know you. You have not had any kind of interaction. Three days is not a lot of time for you to play catch up - but there is still hope- write her a note - tell her that you have observed her throughout the year and you think she is 'hot'. Let her know that you have been hesitant to ask her out, or talk to her because you are nervous - but tell her that you could not hold off any longer - ask her what her plans are for the prom - and if she is willing to take a chance - for once in her life and have some fun with a new person - getting to know her. Then you need to make the phone call and start talking to her and finding out what she likes. You can do it. I know you can. You'll never get what you want if you hesitate - take a deep breath and swallow hard - and go for it!
2007-05-15 15:27:23
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answered by THE SINGER 7
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Ask her when she is alone and try chewing a small piece of gum. Gum helps me relax when i have to talk to someone at work or on the phone when I'm not really in the right frame of mind. Just come out and say. I think you're really nice do you have a date to the prom. Good luck
2007-05-23 22:01:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Wait until AFTER the Prom, then her answer won't matter.
Sheesh, 3 days? Hope she already has a dress and a
hair appointment.
2007-05-23 11:49:05
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answered by big bend seminole 2
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just calm down take a deep breath, you can ask her out its not as bad as it seems. Start talking about prom just casualy asking her about it and then ask her if she has plans for prom,then ask her would like to go with you.
2007-05-23 21:20:47
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answered by Gilmore G 2
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Suck it up and tell her or else you'll be one lonely guy at prom. Girls love guys with the balls to ask her out.
2007-05-15 22:27:12
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answered by Thai 2
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just try ur hardest to get up and ask her or u will seriously be a lonely man at that prom
2007-05-23 22:18:25
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answered by streetracer540 1
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Times a running.... Jus ask if she doesn't already have a date!
2007-05-23 19:04:54
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answered by gottaknow 2
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3 days away
damn dude, you're quite the night-before kinda guy
2007-05-15 22:24:39
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answered by TrueSource 2
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jus ask her...
2007-05-23 05:53:23
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answered by Rico 2
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