2007-05-15 14:43:16 · 9 answers · asked by Mimi C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him to back off.
If he doesn't listen slap him.
Still continues tell your parents
Still continues call 911
2007-05-15 14:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are but let me make myself clear - at any age one should never do ANYTHING he or she isn't ready for, doesn't experience as pleasurable or for ANY reason at all doesn't feel totally good about.
If for some reason you are finding it hard to say "NO" then this is a sign that you probably should not be intimate with this particualr person.
You should always feel comfortable enough to decline any activity of any kind at any time. And you don't need to have any reason other than "I don't want to".
Sex is grown up "play" and play is meant to be fun. It is a creative and intimate way to express deep feelings for another human being.
If any of the above is giving youu trouble, please rethink any decision to be sexual with this person. Perhaps you aren't ready to be sexual at all or it may be that this guy is not a good choice.
If you are young, I encourage you to find a trusted adult, one who's life you feel is in good order and one you feel that you can discuss these matters with and not be judged or lectured about feelings of "right and wrong".
We each must decide what our limits are, how far we will go with any given person at any given time. We are also allowed to try something, not like it, and then to change our minds.
Only genuine respect and maturity allow for this kind of open and honest communication, so do examine yourself and the young man to determine if you are ready for the heavy emotional experience and responsibility that is involved in being this physically close to a guy and DO, above all else, respect yourself in all of your choices.
2007-05-15 22:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't ready for sex of any kind. tell him to leave you alone so you can study your dictionary. is this some random guy?
2007-05-15 21:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO! Then if he persists, crush his head w/ your knees. He'll quit.
2007-05-15 21:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by abc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough it is right... just dont take it any farther... it will be wonderful.. really.... nothing wrong if you are of age..
2007-05-15 21:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think it's right, don't do it. Stay in school.
2007-05-15 21:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by WinterBorn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him you'll will love it. we all like to do that . well most of us do
2007-05-15 21:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with that
2007-05-15 21:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why isnt it right?
2007-05-15 21:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋