my xgirlfriend will not let me or my family see my daughter what can i do?

Answer 1

go to court!!!dads have rights too. file for full custody if you can take care your daughetr better than her mother can.

Answer 2

If she refuses to let you or your family see your daughter and you're not a bad person or neglectful to the child than you can bet its her way of trying to hurt you. This is unacceptable. Who this is hurting the most is that child. I have experience in this arena as my ex tried the same thing. It caused my children great distress. You need to get a visitation order from the courts and enforce it through the police if necessary! You may try to appeal to her love of the child by letting her know that this is now and will continue to harm that child. If that doesn't work. Take her to court!!!! That child needs constant contact with both parents. Its essential to that child's emotional and mental well being. In my opinion this is a form of child abuse and any judge would agree. Good luck and if you need any other advice on this process please feel free to email me.

Answer 3

Dress up in batman suit, hang a banner round your neck, hang out on the street near her house so she sees you, stay there till the press start to cover the story, then she'll know you tried... or try to get hold of someone from the org. Families Need Fathers, see what they advise... they may have a 2nd-hand costume you could borrow...
Sorry, must be awful for you- don't mean to make light... just know what a difficult plight...
Maybe the money spent on a long court battle... could pay instead for adverts in their local newspaper? EG. TO MY BELOVED DAUGHTER, I MISS YOU, WITH BEST WISHES, LOVE FROM DADDY.
You gotta do something to reach their hearts & minds I guess, so the tide turns, & they start seeing you in a more favourable light... In this day & age, money EG. child support goes a long way to cool differences & change negativity...

Answer 4

There is only 1 thing you can do and that is go to court. If money is an issue you should try going to legal aid. As a father you do have a right to see your daughter. Good luck.

Answer 5

The worst thing you can do is go to court in my opinion. Firstly it is very expensive, very stressful and will just cripple your relationship with your x, and also it is not good for your daughter to go through. Try your hardest to talk and make arrangements. But if that fails at the end of the day you have the right as her father to see her. So then you should se a solicitor. What ever happens best of luck, and remember your daughters life would be much better with her father than wthout

Answer 6

See a solicitor, this happened to my hubby with his ex wife and son, it had to go to Court, he had to go through mediation and she still refused. The judge gave her a court order that his dad had to see him. She didn't respond to 3 court orders, so the judge gave her a penile injunction and if she didn't go by that it meant she would be arrested and his son would live with us. Luckily she responded and we now have him every Saturday and when ever we want. It has all gone brilliant but worth it, the both sides now get on for my step-sons sake and he is a lot happier and settled for it.

My thoughts are with you as some just don't understand that the only one who suffers in all of this is the child through confusion. Good luck and don't give up you WILL get to see your daughter wether in a few weeks or a few months you WILL trust me.

Answer 7

You have no choice but to get a solicitor. It is not fair when women do this for no good reason.
If you are the childs father and you pay maintenance for your child,You have a very good case.
Good luck to you.
Do it asap,Kids grow up so quick these days.
P.s in the long run it really would help to get alomg with your ex for the sake of your child,if you cant just act civil when the child is there.

Go on go and get your child back in your life!!!!

Answer 8

Get legal advice. Don't ever give up trying to get in contact because your daughter will no doubt want to know why if you do. If it means going to court do so. What ever the circumstances of your break up with her Mum, try to keep on at least civil terms for the sake of your daughter. it makes it much easier for all of you. Never bad mouth her Mum to her when you do see her. Good luck to you and keep trying until you win no matter how long it takes.

Answer 9

Try to avoid court first of all if you can. Why not arrange to meet up with her somewhere to talk about it. Perhaps you could take her out for a nice lunch - that would soften her up. Explain that you would like to see your daughter regularly and suggest that maybe you could do it somewhere neutral (maybe your mum's house) and that she could come along too at first until your daughter gets used to the arrangements. Try to be nice to her initially - it sounds like she has really dug her heels in, so she won't be expecting pleasantness from you. If none of that works then you will need to see a solicitor, but try to make that a last resort.

Well done to you, by the way, for being such a committed dad. The world needs more men like you.

Answer 10

First, you might sit down with her (and ONLY HER) at a mutually agreed upon place (somewhere in public) so that you can discuss exactly WHY it is that she will not allow you to see your daughter. If her reasons are not valid, then discuss with her the possibility of having to find a lawyer.

Then, you need to see a good lawyer. Oftentimes, you can get things resolved with a lawyer making a call to the other party. If not, he will take care of getting all the minute details together so that you can win your case.

Hope everything turns out well so that you can be a Father in her life!

Answer 11

Go to a family law attorney and you can easily get court ordered visitation. Be aware the court will also order support, hope you have been paying otherwise the judge will not be happy with you. It will affect how much you get to see your daughter.