Situation requiring forgiveness or a miracle?

Question

I asked someone to forgive me for something - and truth be told, I simply dont know why this person is so mad at me, or why I cant get along with this person, despite that I really love them as a person. I just wish that things weren't so hostile and resentful between us...
I left them a message that said I wish they could forgive me, but I really dont expect them to call me back for a very long time if at all....
And I was just wonder, spiritually, is that all I can do? I really dont think there is much more I can do on the physical plane - no matter what I do, I make them angry.
If the rest is up to the universe, what are the chances that we'll ever be able to be civil?

Answer 1

Sometimes things are the way they are, and no matter what you do about it, or how much you brainstorm it, it's just going to be messed up.

I'm in a situation with my manager, things happened, I don't understand it, and I'm perfectly OK with just writing him off, and not liking him. There seems to be alot of things I can do nothing about. Things are the way they are. Believe me, I have tried to make amends, and every time I get close to him, Ka-Blooie! It's beyond my understanding.

I can't waste my time pondering it, or beating myself up over it...

Answer 2

That is actually all you can do for now. The chances of this person dealing with their "stuff" is up to them. Think about their personality that should give you some clue as to if they will get over whatever's angering them about you. And truth be told if they are so hostile and angry it's because of something in themselves and has nothing to do with you...NM

Answer 3

You can't control what the other person does. You can only decide to forgive this person yourself. You can't be reconciled, because he/she is not willing. But you can forgive this person's attitude for the sake of your own emotional and spiritual well-being.

Answer 4

Forgiveness and prayer