*sigh* Im a girl and i have.. well... too much hair on my face.. What to do plz read only if ur female?

Question

ARGH! Ok, well i have a lip hair >.< Oh god i have some guy friends who are probably gonna end up reading this *jumps off a cliff*
What should i do though? I mean like, what can i do to make it totally disappear? Im 12 and its pretty noticable. And to make it worse, i have a red mark going there because of my latest stuffy nose (the mark you get when you blow ur nose too much you know?) to make it even more noticable. I know my parents know, its like thier worried too but i can tell they want to see if i can handle it on my own (thats how they teach).

Well, i've been 'plucking' lately (if you call like taken out the hairs that) and its like, im missin some too so it just looks funky lol.

My EXTREMELY rude friends tell me i have a mustache when hes tryin to get my attention, but he does that to everybody which really annoys me. Also, i cant just imediately take it all off, its gonna be too noticable. How can i thin it?
Im 12, gimme tips i can actually acheive

Answer 1

Oh, don't listen to your friends. Lots of girls are like that.

Maybe you're missing some when you pluck because the lighting is bad wherever you are. Use like a flashlight or something& you'll be able to catch everything.

Or you can bleach. If you don't want to go buy a kit, use peroxide or lemon juice. I'm pretty sure they're supposed to make hair lighter.

Or you could try Nair or waxing. Don't shave.

Answer 2

I take it you have dark hair right? Well baby I don't know if you have started having your periods, but if you haven't your whole body will change with the change in your hormones after you start. A lot of it has to do with your hormones....I know that doesn't help you much right now but at your age there is little you can do other than thin the hairs down by plucking. Maybe you could get a cream that lightens the hair until your hormones kick in. I know how you feel but believe me in a few years this will just be a bad memory. You're going to be beautiful and those other kids are going to be jealous.

Answer 3

I have a bit of a blonde mustache and I had a couple of (admittedly rude) guys mention it (really, I think hardly noticable, guys are just jerks). I simply shave it once a week in the shower. Otherwise, they make facial hair bleaches that you could use, but the hair will still be there. Otherwise, surgery, which sucks. So if you're worried about people noticing: get the facial hair bleach, use it, and then take the hair off with a razor. Maybe it will be a gradual process that way. Good luck!

Answer 4

DO NOT SHAVE YOUR LIP!!! THATS INSANE
Go see a local beauty shop and have it waxed, it will cost you about 7 bucks, and if you wanted to they could shape your eye brows too...

Talk with your mom first, in private, and explain to her what you are feeling and how this is effecting you and that you would like her to take you to the salon and aleviate this problem, you are entering puberty and your hormonoes are all out of whack...

and if you dont want to go to the salon (which is the best place to get it done)
VEET has wax strips for the face.. and you can do it yourself, if you know what you are doing.... i would suggest going to the salon for the first few times then attempting at home by yourself if you are brave enough.
BUT PLEASE DO NOT SHAVE IT!!!!

and yes you can... and if some dumb boy tries to put you down for making yourself feel better about yourself... ask him is he JEALOUS THAT YOU HIT PUBERTY BEFORE HIM.... and laugh in his face.
kind of cheesey yes i know...sorry its been years since i was 13.

Answer 5

put some nair on it. Why not immediately take it all off. You want to keep it? For what? Nair or face wax but do the nair..get the one for the face...read the instructions. Tell you mom you want to get rid of it. Cry she will help you. If you can afford to get it wax go to the salon. This will keep it smoother longer. Screw your friends. If you can't do any of these things. Take a few hours and sit there and pluck your hairs.
I HAVE A SIX YEAR OLD AND IF SHE NEEDED IT I WOULD TAKE HER TO GET HER FACE WAXED. YOU CHILDHOOD IS CRUCIAL TO YOUR DEVOLOPEMENT.

Answer 6

Honey, You are only 12 and your hormonal levels are changing and the issues you are facing now will change as you pass through puberty and emerge into womanhood. Do not do anything drastic now. Use bleaching products or have it waxed. You will see that as you mature, your hormones will level off and it will not be so noticeable. Good Luck

Answer 7

There is a product called Sally Hansen. They sell it at many regular stores...CVS, DUANE READE...anyway...they are these little strips that you cut to the size you need and place over the area (it's wax). Read the instructions...Try it. hair will be finer after a few times.

Answer 8

You should buy the Nair for your face. It will remove it and leave it smooth. BTW don't be embarrassed about it. I know plenty of girls with lip hair. Some girls just can't help it if they have dark hair. I have lip hair but mines just blonde. Don't stress over it.

Answer 9

there are several products that are sold in drug stores that are made to remove hair from the face, I know nair has one. It is under $10.00 and I think it would be worth the price for you to feel better about yourself. **** luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pleas don't keep plucking it will make the hair grow in thicker and darker.

Answer 10

look im the same age go and get a wax it would thin it out and put some cream on for ur red spot then u will look hott