2007-03-24 15:16:05 · 15 answers · asked by cookiewoman 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Ignore the nasty answers. This is your body we're talking about, not theirs. Nobody knows your circumstances, and nobody has the right to judge you. Even if they did know, they STILL wouldn't have that right. Having said that, aborting a fetus (not a baby) this late in the pregnancy is incredibly dangerous. You are at a very high risk, and most reputable abortion clinics won't perform the procedure, so you'd have to turn to some seedy places in the States (in Canada I don't think anyone performs the procedure after 14 weeks). This only makes the situation worse. i know it's a pain, but if you feel you don't want to keep this baby, at this stage I would suggest adoption, based only on your safety. I know I'm probably going to get a lot of "thumb down"s for this response, but I'm saying it anyway. Just be sure you're not being pressured one way or the other - don't let anyone tell you you HAVE to keep or abort your fetus, but take all aspects of the situation, especially your health, in to consideration.
2007-03-24 16:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kira P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Besides I don't know of any clinics that would abort your baby after being this far along. If you knew you wanted an abortion you should have decided before 4 months. Now they do horrible things to kill your innocent flesh and blood. I had a friend who had an abortion at barley 3 months and had a hemorrhage and about died hmmm....... If there is a doctor that would abort a baby at four months shame on them!!!
2007-03-24 22:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mandie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd recommend adoption. I know many couples who would be willing to adopt that child.
Abortion is not something I find "safe" ever. Read up on the methods. Even those who claim it is safe, usually are not totally honest. Every woman I know who has had an abortion has had problems due to it. Whether it be emotional or physical, it is damaging to both the baby and the woman.
Research it thoroughly and seek ALL options before deciding on abortion is my suggestion.
WARNING!! Here's a link to a GRAPHIC video of an actual abortion in progress. http://www.silentscream.org/
2007-03-24 22:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ratmistress 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dr Tiller of Kansas does late term abortions...BUT he had "killed" some moms who seeks late term abortions....you could be next!!
Just google Dr Tiller and you'll know all about him.....
Why not give the baby up for adoption?? There are loving childless couples who were trying to get pregnant for years... and they do pay for medical & personal expenses.....I hope you seek this direction.
2007-03-24 23:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by sxysalsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you don't want your baby there are plenty of families out there that would love to adopt your baby. Do what is best for your baby. I was adopted and when I hear people talk of abortions it makes me sick.
2007-03-24 22:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never safe to abort.
There is a 100% fatality rate for the baby.
2007-03-25 00:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by calliope_13731 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never do that, at least give the child a chance but DO NOT abort the kid kuz, just think aborting the child is murdering someone that you don't know.
2007-03-24 22:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by digger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about asking your doctor instead of relying upon a bunch of strangers on Yahoo Q&A with "zero" credentials to lead you in the right direction?
2007-03-24 22:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not safe if you do not want the baby or are not able to raise it......give it a chance to live. how would you feel if your parents aborted you ? please don't do it ?
2007-03-24 23:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by angelinajolieisme123456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
safe for who you or the baby your killing
cause i don't think the baby thinks it's safe
2007-03-24 22:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋