I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time last weekend. We had it Thursday, Friday and Saturday Night..each time we used a condom and he pulled out before he got off. I was suppose to start my period Thursday (so 2 days ago) and I didnt. It's been two days and I still havent. I know abnormal periods are pretty normal for teens but for the past 3 months mine have been on time even to the hour...I'm just really scared...is my fear unjustified?
2007-03-24 07:46:03 · 16 answers · asked by Rachel K 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hi there honey. I just wanted to agree with all the others who told you that it is very unlikely that you are pregnant. I would go so far as to say almost impossible.
I would like to add that if you are going to continue making love with your boyfriend you should find a form of birth control that you trust. You evidently do not trust condoms or your boyfriend would not have had to withdraw like you said he did. Actually condoms are a very reliable form of birth control if they are used conscientiously, many couples have successfully used them for years. The point is that you find a form of birth control that you feel comfortable with.
I am sure that you are not pregnant. Calm down and try to relax, you WILL start your period!
Love and Blessings
Lady Trinity~
2007-03-24 08:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he wore a condom everytime and pulled out, it's pretty unlikely that you are pregnant, but definately not impossible. I'm guessing that you've been stressing about getting pregnant before you even missed your period. Stress will delay a period. Try to relax..but to make sure just get a home pregnancy test.
Also, I'm not sure how long your cycles are, but if you had sex last weekend, it most likely wasn't your fertile time. I would suggest researching how babies are concieved. You will learn when you are most likely fertile, and how to further prevent pregnancy that way. It's called the "calendar method". Use this along with condoms.
2007-03-24 14:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its it always possible that you are pregnant, however, given the circumstances (condom every time and withdrawal) I doubt that you are. The late period is most likely because this is the first time you had sex. HOWEVER, you are playing with a loaded gun. You are 16, do you really want to risk getting pregnant (making the rest of your life very difficult) for a few minutes of pleasure? Sure, you are safe now, but later your standards of safety will get lax and he won't pull out when he ejaculates, then he won't want to wear a condom, then sooner or later... you'll be pregnant. I have lost count of the people I personally know who found out "the hard way" that when you don't wait, you procreate. Abstaining is very difficult (that's why most people don't), so please be very careful when you have sex, ALWAYS use a condom and please get on birth control (and yes still use a condom with birth control).
2007-03-24 14:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You had sex and even with protection it is possible;e. The real reason you might be late is because you are so worried about it. If you are then in a bout a week you need to take a test. If you have a negative result your period should start very soon after because you will not stress about it any more and you should maybe not have sex until you think you are ready to have a baby. If you are pregnant you need to get help as soon as possible from your parents, you are very young and it will be very difficult. Good luck!!
2007-03-24 14:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you were as careful as you say you were, you are probably ok as long as he put the condom on before his penis had any contact whatsoever with your vagina. However, just to be safe, take a test. Get first response, it should be able to detect if you are pregnant or not now. If it comes up negative, wait a week. If you still have not had a period, test again if it is negative again, then I would say you are in the clear.
2007-03-24 15:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex for the first time so yeah not getting your period right away is normal. your body is changed, give it time, and dont stress. You used a condom and he pulled out before he ejaculated so the chance of you being pregnant is low. Relax and it you are really concerned about it take a test. good luck.
2007-03-24 14:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a home pregnancy testing kit at the drugstore. You may not be, the tension may have held up your period, but if you are not, go to planned parenthood and get on the pill before you have sex again. Use the pill and condoms together.
2007-03-24 14:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by kadel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely it is stress but you could take a test just to be sure. maybe ask your boyfriend or bestfriend to go to the store with you and get it.
Also the fact that you are so scare about this proves that you are not ready for sex and need to grow up more and wait untill you are in a place in your life where if something does happen you are able to handle it.
2007-03-24 14:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are 16 you should talk to someone about it. A older family member, take a pregnancy test, or just go to the doctor to find out for sure. You may be worried for nothing.
Oh, and if you are going to be sexually active, go to family planning. They will usu sally supply birth control pills to teens for free.
2007-03-24 17:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Zefina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANY TIME YOU HAVE SEX YOU MAY BECOME PREGNANT. However, fear of pregnancy, thinking of pregnancy, or stress about your relationsip can delay your period. Just take a test (which I'm sure will be negative), and relax. And THINK VERY CAREFULLY BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX AGAIN! If you can't handle bing a parent, you aren't ready to have sex.
2007-03-24 15:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by EYoungmom88 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋