I would want mine to remember that I spent alot of time w/ them. That I was always fair and understanding and that I always listened. I would want them to remember that they came first before anybody else in my life.
2007-03-20 07:08:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I want my children to remember me as their best friend,the person they have shared everything with,the one who have spent a lot of time with them,who have understood their feelings and emotions,the person who have always encouraged them to take estimated risks and to follow their hearts.
2007-03-20 07:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Livia 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope my children remember what a devoted loving mother I was. They, like your kids, should remember that nothing comes before them. They are #1. I'm currently 20weeks pregnant with number 2, and my son is 2.5 years old, but I know that he knows I'm always here for him when he needs me. He has a wonderful daddy too, but daddy works all day and mommy works nights while he's asleep. So I really get to spend my whole day devoted to him, only working part-time after he goes to sleep. He probably doesn't even know half the time that I'm not there.
I want him(and the new baby) to always feel loved and be trusting in other people. I hope to set a good example and have my kids turn into responsible caring adults. :)
We all can dream :)
Good question!
Interested in seeing all the responses.. :)
2007-03-20 14:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want my little girl to remember that I was her best friend, that she was always first before any one and how much I loved her and how I would do anything for her. And that what ever she needed or when ever she need to talk to some one I was always there. I want her to remember and understand that I will always be there for her even after I'm gone.
2007-03-20 15:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by trish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want them to remember me for the amount of love I had for them and how much time I spent with them. Also the fact that they came befor anyone in the world!!!
2007-03-20 14:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want them to remember how much I loved all of them. How we spent Holidays, special family moments, little family secrets. How I always asked how their day was and listened to every detail. How they could always come to me for anything and I would listen first, offer advice second.
2007-03-20 15:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want her to remember that I respected her, loved her unconditionally, was always proud and supportive of her. And I would want her to remember the small everyday things we did together, like going to the park and making each other laugh. And if she could only know the way I felt when I rocked her to sleep or when she showed me she loved me. I just wish our children can conceptualize exactly how much we love them.
2007-03-20 14:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Megan J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, yours was nice. Same with me, I want them to remember that I was always there with them and for them. That we did fun things together, that I loved them so much that I was willing to stay home with them and sacrifice my needs for a while so they could have the best possible childhood. That I had a good relationship with God, and that they remember that I prayed with them every night. These are things I remember about my mom (although she is still here) and I love her for them.
2007-03-20 14:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thinks everyone just wants to be remembered as being good right? I mean I want my daughter to always be able to talk to me that is the most important thing love is nothing with out understanding and communication. If you talk with you child they will be trust you opinion and judgment more often:D
2007-03-20 14:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Petronia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love him and my yes was yes and my no was no. He could rely on my word. Some of life's lessons that I've learned the hard way and have shared with him. The times we laughed together. The hugs and the kisses. The bedtime stories. That I was very very proud of him and could not have asked for a better son. That I would want him to think of me and SMILE. I'll see him in heaven.
2007-03-20 15:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that i loved them for who they are, that they are incredible people, that no one can cook as good as their mom, my voice is so bad it's funny, that they could tell me anything, and that I'm waiting for them in the back left of heaven, that little voice inside there heads is me whispering i love you, I'm proud of you, i would hope that a smell or place or sound each day will remind them of a happy memory of a special time we shared, the little things,i write my children each a card on there birthday and holidays, telling them how I'm feeling and what we are doing what stage they are at in there life, funny things they say or do, then i put there name and the year and holiday on the envelope i put these away, some day when I'm gone they will come across these, i hope it puts a smile on there face
2007-03-20 16:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by melissa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋