A woman asked me what I was mixed with. I told her black and puertorican. She looked at me as if i were crazy and proceeded to say that puertoricans are dirty, and that to be part black with it I must have issues! She also said I hope you dont plan on having half dirty n-word kids. I started to cry that day because I have never encountered it that bad. What should I do, I still see that crazy lady around! Has that ever happened to you?
2007-03-19 09:14:31 · 17 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I'm sorry but i would have cursed that B-I-T-C-H Out! dirty what you gotta out yo' freakin' mind
I probably would have stole off her *** too! and on more thing INTERRACIAL ROCKS THAT LADY CAN KISS MY BLACK ***! YOU GO AHEAD AND KEEP ROCKIN' ON WITH YOUR BIRACIAL SELF- I LIKE THAT don't let no one get to you like that again-peace!
2007-03-19 09:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie L 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm in an interracial relationship and have been for 18 years. The only thing I've had to deal with are hostile looks and dumb *** questions. Back when I was young I'd be very angry and defiant, but now I couldn't care less. My relationship isn't going anywhere, right? ;-) But if someone were to say some sh!t like that to me or to my kids, it would be a whole different story.
That woman was evil. I can't believe anyone would say anything so vulgar and hurtful to another human being. I'm really sorry that happened to you! There's not much you can do now about it, unfortunately, but if she ever comes at you again like that, please HURT her! People like that are asking to have their *sses kicked and then some. What nerve.
2007-03-19 09:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by fun_purple_beach 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG,wow,I have never dealed with anything like that before...I am sorry someone could be so dumb as to say those things,I know that it can hurt but be proud of who you are and know loving yourself is all that matters.The only form of raciesim I have been in (im white) is while walking down the side walk with a friend,a black couple drove by and threw trash at us and shouted profanity.I still can't figure that one out.I think every race is beautiful and each should be treated the same.The media shows only young black men getting into trouble and doing wrong,when really its every race every age.I have a lot more to say about this toppic and if you want to har it,you cna e-mail me jillpickle8@yahoo.com
2007-03-19 09:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by jill@doodle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a black man and yes it has happen to me many times even by my so called white friends enough about me but I have a question were you at work or in a setting where there were a lot of people if you would answer this for me I would operate it? My mother sent us me and my two brothers and one sister to an all white school be for integration was cool in the south and I was poisoned everyday believe it or not
2007-03-19 11:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you allow yourself to cry because of an ignorant person making stupid comments? There have been times when I've gotten pis*sed off to the point of violence, I broke a girl's finger, which she deserved cause not only was it one word, it was a word coupled with a blow, so as she went to take her hand away from my face I grabbed it and snapped her finger from the joint and broke it. But that was when I was a third grader... since then I really have had no racist altercations...
Just ignore her and if she says anything else racist to you just tell her to shove it.
2007-03-19 12:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have dismembered that bytche's face! I never tolerate that sort of blatant disrespect. Seriously, I would have beat that bytch to the white meat. Her face would have resembled cherry pie filling! I'm pissed and it didn't even happen to me.
But since you didn't do that, just get over it. She was probably just jealous. Black and Peurtorican is a beautiful mix and you're probably really pretty. Won't be the last time, either. Just next time, give the bytch a bloody nose or something, for Pete's sake!
Take care.
2007-03-19 09:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah. Twice. Once in a New York JHS (busted boy up) and once as an adult in South Carolina. My supervisor had to pull me to the side and told me to check my badge, because no sooner then the guy formed his mouth to call me N****r, I was in his grill ready to whoop his @$$ I had one guy make a remark rascist remark, glaring at me, but I ignored it. He didn't touch me, so I didn't think about it. Islam helped me overlook stupidity and control myself if I don't.
If you see her again, don't respond or give her the impression she's getting a rise out of you. Unfortunately, too many people get off on other people's pain. Plus, you don't have to stand there and listen to her berate you, walk away.
2007-03-19 09:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by سيف الله بطل جهاد 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly, I would like to say that I would be strong enough to just blow it off. But I would probably tell her she is a disgusting bigot. If no one was around and I felt like I could take her, I probably would have backhanded her, too.
2007-03-19 09:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by M L 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would have lokked at her, and smiled, and told her to have a good day. Do not let her words hurt you be proud of who you are.
2007-03-19 09:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aah dont worry...people are talking out of their asses all the time...stupid people are everywhere...to answer to your question no i havent been offended by any racist comment...maybe its just bcuz i ignore them and i dont care...thats what you should do...have a good day and dont forget to smile;)
2007-03-19 09:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋