a friend of mine said that she doesn't wan't any kids. i was thinking that she means that she doesn't want kids right now because she is only 19(i know, WAY TOO YOUNG). do you know of any girls who have changed their minds about this issue as they got into their mid 20's or so?
2007-03-15 17:46:04 · 11 answers · asked by Tahitoa 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
by the way, i am a couple years older, im 21.
2007-03-15 18:04:13 · update #1
Of course. Your friend is probally ready to hit the streets partying and not wake up for 3 days and do it all again. It's normal to feel that way. Although there are some poeple who honestly don't want kids....mostly guys..but a few women. Give her time within 4 years or when she meets a good guy she will change her mind most likely!
2007-03-15 17:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of people that have changed their mind. There are a lot of people who haven't. At 19, she is old enough to know what she wants for her life. I knew at that age that I didn't want to be a mother. I'm now in my mid-20s and still feel the same way.
Why does it matter to you if she has children or not?
2007-03-16 00:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say there's a great chance that she may change her mind. Once she has had time to be selfish- no offense but young people ARE selfish I am 20 and proud to admit it. But having kids forces you to become "unselfish." Once she has had time to figure out what she wants from life most women find that they DO want to have kids. And now a days women are having kids older and older because of new medical discoveries and everything they're fewer risks involved --- LONG STORY SHORT -- I bet she will eventually turn around if you're willing to wait around! (ps 19 IS too young to have kids -- trust me ;)
2007-03-16 00:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah. Most of my friends changed their minds after they got out of their teens. I was like that too. Then I changed my mind when I was 21. I became pregnant soon after and had my baby when I was 22. She's the best thing in my life.
My sister is 24 and goes back and forth between wanting kids and not wanting kids. Currently she really wants kids, but not until she's married (in 2008).
2007-03-16 00:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even when i was a small child i use to say i never wanted children just a career and it stayed that way well into my 20's and now i have a hubby and 3children that i love to death , so yes its possible for her to change her mind eventually but there is always the chance that she might not want kids ever, so people dont.
2007-03-16 01:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by sunkissedpei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband never wanted kids. So we decided together which type of birth control for the time being until he decided he wanted kids. After a few months, I found out I was pregnant. Abortion was out because I don't believe in it. Adoption was out after going through a horrible pregnancy. After we had our daughter, he fell in love with her. We now have two daughters and we're planning on having one or two more. To answer your question, your friend can easily change her mind.
2007-03-16 00:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably haven't met the right guy yet. He's going to be so amazing, so beautiful, so good to her that she'll want to have his baby. I know because I was just like her and then I met an amazing guy who loved me and accepted me the way I was. It didn't work out, but he changed my mind about a lot of things. Maybe I'll have a baby next year.
2007-03-16 01:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by romemontsanto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may want kids in the future yes, but shes just looking at now im sure, I mean i was like that too.........i dont want kids, i like it better when i can watch them and give them back on and on but look Im 19yrs old and pregnant, and i wouldnt change a thing...so i kinda take offence to that statement, but i completly understand it at the same time lol...but she may wont children as she gets older!! No worrys darlin!!
2007-03-16 00:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by mommy_2_b07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me when i was in my teens and early 20's the thought of having kids was repulsive to me but after i got married it just seemed like the thing i wanted to do more than anything but i still only wanted one so we had our daughter and my hubby had a vasectomy i have no regrets and sometimes even wonder how i could ever say i didnt want a child
2007-03-16 00:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by aarika 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup well not in their mid twentys but late 20's to early thirties. she vowed that she never wanted children, but now after being with her boyfirend for 3 years and him loving and wanting children she has stated that they are going to try to concieve next year.
2007-03-16 00:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by jjsoccer_18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋