Plz help
2007-03-15 07:36:28 · 11 answers · asked by Inneed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him down easy say u have a boyfriend but say it around like Ur friends so he can hear it it does not have to be a guy in Ur school or any thing
2007-03-15 07:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this kind of stuff is always difficult- especially if its a really nice guy that really likes you. Its hard to turn him down but definitely be humble and sweet to him. Don't give him the cold shoulder. And when the appropriate moment comes along (like when he's asking you out) tell him something along the lines of "I'm not looking for a boyfriend at the moment." or "I wasn't planning on dating anyone right now." It doesn't really matter what you say as long as its as nice as you can possibly make it, because anything you say will upset the guy. Just be comfortable and try and make it as less awkward as possible. Don't damage his ego too much.
2007-03-15 07:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that issue. Tell him your flattered. But in a flirty way, still being careful to not give him the wrong idea. Tell him that although you may think he's a great guy, your looking for something else, something different. Don't say better, say different.
2007-03-15 07:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.One thing that you can say I think is that you are seeing someone already and although he is a great guy you can't see him because you have strong feelings for this other guy.
2.Another one is that you are still not over your ex and that you aren't ready to get involved romantically with him as you don't want to lead him on when u still have feelings for your ex.
3. Stick to the truth. say you cherish your friendship with him and you really like him as a friend and you don't want to ruin your friendship by getting romantically involved with him.
2007-03-15 07:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by ☆Ele☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that he is too nice and any girl wants to be with him,but you can't go throw this any more,although he is nice,has a good personality,but you don't htink it will be works very well.....don' t forget to say how much you're sorry and you wish for him the good luck,kiss him a final simple kiss and say again you're sorry
2007-03-15 07:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! You should tell him how you feel, nice and sensible though. Or you could ignore the fact that he likes you and hang out with him. If you like him.
good luck
2007-03-15 07:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first don't lead him on just tell him upfront you think he is cool or w/e but you just don't like him as anymore then a friend you can't help how you feel and he should understand that
2007-03-15 07:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanie Rae saves the day <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can say your a lesbian.
or..
say you just prefer to be friends.
or that you can`t have a boyfriend.
or that you already have a boyfriend that goes to a different school.
or that you just simply arn`t interested.
if everything doesn`t work. say you`re a lesbian!!
2007-03-15 07:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nice guy, but, I am not interested in you for more than a friend.
2007-03-15 07:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are extremely flattered, but just dont see him in that way, then tell him you would love to be friends becasue you think he is a cool guy
2007-03-15 07:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋