So I would never say about 95% of what I'm about to because I'm so shy, but I have to ask this question.. I'm really really modest but okay here goes. I know I'm attractive..random guys always call out to me and such..I'm petite & skinny, but not too skinny (I have muscle definition from being a gymnast and dancer for 15 yrs.. I'm 19) I weigh 95 lbs, but I'm only 5ft.. Everyone says all my weight is in my chest (I wear a 36B).. dark skin (I'm Hispanic),pretty face,dark brown hair.. which goes down right below my chest.There's only one thing I'm self conscious about.. I have some hair only on my upper back.. it's not thick or anything, but I notice it.. It's not that bad, but like I said I'm self conscious about it. The question is.. I'm dying to cut my hair to where my shoulder blades are.. which would show my back if I wear something low in the back.. what do guys think about this? If a girl is really attractive, but has that, do you think it's gross?
2007-03-13 10:07:28 · 9 answers · asked by Rar 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
The thing I'm most worried about it that.. I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and I know he loves everything about me. He even says that he wouldn't care if I didn't shave my legs, he'd still love me and think I was the hottest thing ever. I'm just afraid that when we have sex and he's behind me, he'll see it and be turned off? I don't know.. I just never ever ever wear my hair up, so I don't think any of my friends have ever even noticed it. Thanks for comments !!
2007-03-13 10:07:51 · update #1
Basic question : Should I cut my hair? Even though it'll show that?
2007-03-13 10:08:42 · update #2
By the way .. I completely understand how ridiculous I am being for writing so much for such a basic question, and no, this is not a major major problem in my life hah.. I obviously have bigger problems, but I figured I'd ask an opinion question on here because I can :) I really appreciate those people who can give a simple answer without being rude
2007-03-13 10:36:50 · update #3
I'm going to answer ur question even though i'm a girl, but i'm not gonna be as rude and stupid as Rachel who also answered. I don't think it's a big deal, you've been with ur boyfriend long enough to get past something as minor as this. If it's really a problem for u just shave it, but really nobody will notice at least it's not a mustache.
2007-03-13 10:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously areen't the "WolfWoman", so go ahead and cut your head hair, and don't sweat the back hair. If you really are sensitive about it, even though us guys won't care, maybe you could wax, shave, or Nair the back hair off. ?
It's not like having facial beard or mustache, so it's not a bad factor--more like a "beauty mark". We guys look at the whole package, and we don't go nitpicking the tiny flaws, especially when the rest is soooo gooood, like you must be.;-)
2007-03-13 10:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might unload him asap. If he likes yet another female and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? actual love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, this is dedicated and tough artwork. you have to be certain this as a crimson flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you ought to no longer additionally be thinking a serious courting that is going to reason you lack of self assurance. have relaxing, do no longer become overly invested in this, WHAT? you are able to no longer flirt? circulate on, the writing is on the wall and it spells complication. Do your self a choose and cut back the guy unfastened, whether that's destined to be, this is going to run this is path and he would be returned. yet why you may take him returned purely you are able to answer.
2016-11-25 01:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by cordwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything you've said is true, no guy in his right mind is going to look at your back fur and go "Ewww, gross" We're guys.... if we get to have sex we can put up with hairy arm pits, too much pubic hair, bloody tampons, all sorts of grossness.... it takes quite a lot to gross out a real man.
2007-03-13 10:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by eggman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it. it's not a big deal. It's not like you have a mustache...you don't have a mustache, do you? Maybe it's the European in me, but I like women with some hair on them. It's sexy.
2007-03-13 11:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Grand Poobah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut your hair but wax your back. To me it is a turn off.
2007-03-13 10:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I wouldn't care about back hair.
Secondly, if he really loves you your boyfriend won't either.
2007-03-13 10:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Monty Python 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm gonna answer your retarded question even tho i'm a girl okay if you are THAT self-concious of ur back hair just see a shrink you obviously have problems beyond back hair and that was the LONGEST freakin quistion ever posted seriously i dunno a guy who would even read something that long but anyways grow the hell up puhleeze!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 10:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel (baby_ray_21) 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
LMAO!!!! You are not on here to impress the guys! Ask your bf...he's the one you should care about!! lol....I agree with what the top girl said!
2007-03-13 10:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋