How can i boost my confidence?

Question

I have been told many times by relatives, parents of my friends, a few of my friends, and even a couple random people that i am pretty. I also had a few enemies say otherwise in the past. I am almost 14 years old. I think i am the only one of my friends that doesn't have a boyfriend. I've had boyfriends before but none that i am really proud of saying i've dated. I also get kind of nervous around boys my age that i don't know. I just have low self esteem and im tired of it. I want to look in the mirror and learn to love what i see, but most of the time i despise it. Im 5'9 and im going to get a second interview at a modeling agency. I also have a bit of acne. so, anyways, do yall have any tips on what i could do to give my confidence a little boost?

Answer 1

wow, 14 & 5'9" ? sweet. Anyhow, yeah pinching yourself helps. Other methods onclude tying rubberband around your arm and pinching yourself with that. Low-self-esteem only happens because you're thinking too much about yourself. STOP THAT. You're torturing yourself without knowing it. Trust me, I know. & le tme guess, you want to be looked as sweet understanding and caring every time, dont you? Let me tell you something I was never told around my early teens: YOU CAN NOT BE PEREFECT. Atleast not this early on. & it's an age factor too. You're only 14. Getting nervous around boys is pretty normal for your age. I used to get nervous [and still do sometimes] but I gradually learnt to get over it. AND th emore you think about it, the mor eit'll happen. So don't. Just let yourself be. If you blush or something, tell yourself you're only human.

words of advice: If you're getting into modeeling at such a young age, please keep your family & friends close to you. & always trust your parents before nay one or anything. If they stop you from something, keep away from it. Good luck! :)

Answer 2

Pinch yourself everytime you think negatively. be true to yourself. one bad thought about your probably gorgeous face....and PINCH. now you wouldnt want red marks all over your arm.,..the agency might think your EMO LOL


if you dont like that idea....ask others to make a list. Gather some close friends/family, tell them your problem and if they say you are pretty this will work:
Have everyone say what they think is nice about you and what is bad about you. Tell them to TELL THE HONEST TRUTH. the idea is that there will be a whole list of good things and not many bad things. when you look back you will think about your good charachteristics! :)

Answer 3

Before you step out the door in the morning, tell yourself that you are sexy even if other people say you are not until you believe it. Don't step out that door until you truly believe it!! Remember, confident girls are always hot!!