2007-03-09 14:49:27 · 32 answers · asked by Rogue Tomato 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Right now no. Ask me tomorrow when one decides to start playing basketball near the China cabinet.
2007-03-09 14:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty_Bad_Logic 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would say honestly that in some cases, parents (sometimes for just a temporary moment, sometimes longer) do love one child more than the others.
It could be a good action the child did which influenced the parent, or something else.
The main thing is to never show this to your children, and treat them all the same. Influence them all with equal values, and teach to love each other (and their parents) in return.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-09 15:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Waterfall 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I only have one (girl, 4) with one on the way (boy). I was relieved to find out that we were having a boy because I always tell my daughter she's my favorite daughter, to which she replies that I'm her favorite mommy. I never want to stop saying that to her!!! Oddly enough, I can't imagine loving another daughter like I love her. But...I have already bonded with my unborn; where's I didn't bond with my daughter until a few weeks after she was born. I have no doubt I will love them equally.
2007-03-09 16:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Silver B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, No!! I have three kids and I love them all to pieces. They are all unique personalities, but I would never say that I love one more than the other. That is the honest truth.
2007-03-09 14:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by pbs3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say that I love each of my six children equally.
That is not to say that at certain points in their lives, I was not more annoyed with a particular child--and/or more pleased with a particular child. Each had his and her good and bad years--and good and bad days.
All but one child is over 18 now--and the 'baby' will soon hit 18. She is giving me a lot of grief right now--but at that age, each of them did. Annoying, frustrating, yes--but less love, no.
2007-03-09 15:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not love one more than the other. I feel closer to my 3 year old daughter than I do to my almost 7 month old son though... we haven't had as long together to get to know eachother yet. But he is just as LOVED, I just feel a certain closer connection so far with my older daughter than with my much-younger son... So maybe that is what people mean when they say "I love them both ...but differently"
2007-03-09 18:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love them equally, but I spend more time with the baby than with my son. That will probably change as they get older. My mother in law definitely loves my son more than my daughter(he looks a lot like my husband at that age)
2007-03-09 18:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by lilly j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love different ages and stages more than others. I love the things I see in my kids that remind me of why I love my husband or what I like about myself. Sometimes I think I love one more than the other and then they'll come along and steal my heart again or break it. For me, it ebbs and flows. Love more? I don't think so, but I sure have favorite stages of their development.
2007-03-09 17:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, I hope I never feel more love for one than the other. My brother is favored by my mom and it has hurt my feelings too often, I wouldn't dream of doing that to my kids. I love them both equally!
2007-03-09 15:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by studwife25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One certainly gets on my nerves more than the other! I have "mama's love" also called "my rotten" And I have "little girl" also called "my beautiful". I know they both feel like I love the other more...and at certain times I probably do. But I can't imagine living a day without both of them!!!!!
2007-03-09 14:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by mamma-mia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋