i am "attractive" supposedly but im the one who most worries about her physical aspect out of all my friends...
why?
2007-03-04 15:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I don't think that we attractive people are insecure. Why? What have they told you about me? Don't listen to them. They are just jealous! I didn't really mean that. I hope they aren't mad at me for that. I was just kidding, really. I just couldn't take it if they were mad at me, or thought I was shallow. I am so tired of people thinking that just because I am so dXmned good looking, I must not have a brain. I have a 4.0 and I am captain of the football team and I manage to do both while juggling my modeling career. I just want everyone to like me, but if they don't I really don't care. They Do like me don't they? Seriously, WHAT have you heard?
2007-03-04 15:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of them do... However it depends on if you're a man or a woman. Attractive women have people kissing thier buttz all the time, and attractive women get to the point where they resent it. They get the Idea that people are being FAKE toward them, and this can leave them lonley. I don't know if it make them insecure b/c people always budge and do what these attractive women want, which gives them an unwanted power.
Attractive men have it different in some ways but the same in others. Other men are generally mean towards attractive men and frequently call them "queer" without ever getting to know them. Sometimes women will approach attractive men (and if the attractive guy is BUFF women will do some bizzar stuff) but most of the time women will just stare at them and act frozen. The isolation or self isolation makes these pretty people insecure because like most people they just want to be liked for who they are and not something else.
2007-03-04 23:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by m8xpayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..i think because you are attractive so you are used to be the most beautiful woman among your friends. As such, you are worried that one day one of your friends will overtake you or you may lose what you have now. As a result, you tend to be the one who worried the most. However, i guess it's normal as most women, in fact all, will tend to worry about their physical aspect. Nevertheless, lesser worries means lesser stress and you will look younger =p
2007-03-04 23:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by blurqu33n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that you are your worst critic. Most peopel get insecure because of their lack of (yes im going to say it dont smack me) SELF ESTEEM. Many only can depend on their looks and as soon as they stop seeing compliments their self esteem drops drastically. And that is how it goes!
2007-03-04 23:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by ndndramaqueencutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attractive peple know they are attractive, as a result, they always look for their inperfections, to fix it and maintaind their image. No one will ever be perfect, just be you, and enjoy it...it's not woth being attractive if you don't have fun with it.
2007-03-04 23:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by massiel8064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because looks fade, and you have to have something else for someone to want to wake up next to you for the rest of your life.
2007-03-04 23:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by HA! HA! HA! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep .... beauty fades (unless you are loaded)
so you better have something more to back it all up
self confidence comes from inside~ not the out!
2007-03-04 23:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by ~*common sense*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋