well my best friend ( i know her since i was 3 years old) got in a fight with my cousin( i know her since i was BORN). we 3 were best friends and we are classmates but because of rumors my cousin got mad with my best friend. When i talk 2 my best friend my cousin gets mad, and when i talk to my cousin my best friend gets mad, i cant stop talking with non of them!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO.....PLS HELP ME!!!
2007-03-02 14:42:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let both of them know that you have a history with them and with the other person in your triangle. You are not going to stop being friends with either one, just because they had a fight. They should really be considerate of the fact that you are not going to choose a side. You are going to continue to love them both and be a Friend to both of them regardless of what is going on between them and that you would hope they would do the same for you if the situation was reversed. Do this in a calm manner and hopefully they both understand.
2007-03-02 14:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know how you fell. I've known my best friend since I was 2. Anywhos, you should tell both of them that just because of some silly rumors that someone made up doesn't mean that you must stop being friends. And remind them both that you love them and to remember the good times you've had together and not let this be the end of a great friendship between you guys. Also if that doesn't work then you might have to say until you guys can work this out I won't talk to you. And trust me I know it's hard but maybe it'll work. hope this helps.
2007-03-02 22:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by The Redheaded Monster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds familiar...i have a friend and she has two sisters who hate each other.
you care about both of them equally and that is a good thing. You should tell them both that their complications have nothing to do with you and that you are not part of the fight...you want to remain friends with them both so therefore tell them that you will not pick sides because you are neutral and you dont want to lose either of them.
bottom line...they have no right to drag you into their conflict.
2007-03-02 22:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by noneofyurbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav a choice of being both there friends and theres nothing they can do about it, cuz u didnt hav a fight with either one of them and it sounds like u didnt take a side, if they dont understand u being friends with both of them or them working it out neither one of them is worth having as a friend
2007-03-02 22:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by jordan n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋