I am 4 1/2 months pregnant. My boyfriend doesn't want the baby. He acts like he does when he is around my family and his family but, when were alone all he talks about is how the pregnancy annoys him and how I need to get rid of it. I am haveing a little girl. Which when he found out, got even more annoyed. Since then, we've not seen each other. We talked on the phone and everything but, I've hoped that "space" could give me time to think. Especially on what I should do. My question is: Should I stay or go?
2007-03-02 12:53:00 · 8 answers · asked by troubledsoulgirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Girl, I learned the hard way that you don't need the father. I ended up having three children with my ex-husband. You will be a stronger person by doing this alone and believe it or not you will be able to provide a more stable life for your child without a parent in the picture that does not want the baby. You can do it!!! I did. After a while, I finally found a man who wanted me and my children. It makes him appreciate me more because he knows that I have been taking care of them by myself and he treats us like royalty because they were without a Dad all that time. Things will work out for you in the end. They always do.
2007-03-02 13:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by alisha9679 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go. You don't need him to have this baby. And whether he likes it or not, he'll have to pay child support even if he is out of your life! This baby girl is going to bring you so much happiness and joy, and you don't need the drama of this man dragging you down. If you have friends and family to lean on, all the more power to you. Babies are like being given a gift, and a fresh start in life. Go, girl. Go on with your life, and be happy! Good luck to you, hon.
2007-03-02 21:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think about it is he more important than the life that is inside your stomach.men come and go .there is so many people trying to have children and cant because of health problems or other problems but you are pregnant with a little angel and its not you falt or the babys falt that he dont want to be in your childs life.i say keep your child and send him on his way.take him to court and make him pay child support because he slept with you without using protection so hes going to half to pay.
2007-03-02 21:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by karla_and_destany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be a good mom. It seems you already know the answer to this question. You need love and support right now, and he is not giving that to you. I hope your family and friends are reaching out to you right now. Let them know what is going on and draw on them for support. God bless you and your little one.
2007-03-02 21:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go - before he realizes he doesn't want YOU too.....he may change his mind when your baby girl arrives but do you really want to stay with someone like that long enough to find out? You will survive girl....having a man in our lives doesn't make us who we are.....good luck to you...
2007-03-02 20:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by babyblues_752001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his ***. He is totally two faced to do that to you. Besides how will he treat his child when she is born if you stay with him, for her sake leave him.
2007-03-02 20:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by darkiris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go.
he helped "produce" the kid and if he's going to treat it like garbage.. why should you stay?
2007-03-02 20:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by word to your mother. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him
2007-03-02 23:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by ButterFlyAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋