Im pregnant!!!!?
Im 17 and just took a clear blue pregnancy test, which said i was pregnant, and now im freaking out....my boyfriend was with me when i took the test...well in the same house...and was on the phone when i should him it...is it normal for him to not react at all??? he doesnt even seem nervous...
i posted this question about 8 months ago, i had jsut found out i was pregnant, well i am married now, and am due in 11 days, so obviously i decided to keep the baby, but im really concerned because although my husband is really into the pregnancy, he still claims he is not nervous at all, is this normal??
2007-03-02 12:30:06 · 13 answers · asked by ruspecialenuf 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
When I was pregnant with my first my husband was the same way. He was really good to me, and went to the child birth classes with me, and helped with the registries and shopping for the baby and getting everything ready - he just didn't seem as nervous and excited as I was.
Funny thing though, as soon as he saw his son he changed. Completely. He was bouncing off the walls with excitement and I've never seen a guy so proud.
He told me later that once he held that baby it was REAL for him.
2007-03-02 12:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by InAMoment 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks that you are nervous enough for the both of you guys and he wants to be something dependable to lean on. My husband was the same way until she was born and after that he was scared of everything about how i carried her in the car seat to how the wind hit her face. Every one is different so as long as he is happy then there should really be no concern. Good luck and best wishes:)
2007-03-02 12:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mudduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is that my husband is the same way. He seems so calm about everything. Here I am freaking out about labor, birth, having a new baby and he is totally excited and just very calm and collected. I guess it is a guy thing. Maybe they are just trying to be tough for us. At least one of us is not nervous! LOL.
2007-03-02 12:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by 1st time momma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad :). My boyfriend was...shocked....to say when he found out I was pregnant (We're both 19.) He did want an abortion, but now i'm due this month (30th), all of a sudden he's almost more excited then I am.
It really depends on your boyfriends personality - its usually a bit hard to phase me when things go wrong.
If your worried that he's bottling everything up, maybe you could try to talk to him about it? :)
Good Luck!
2007-03-02 12:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by priestessofthepixels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone responds differently, he may be extrememly nervous, but not wanting to let on. Or he may be in denial and the precnancy hasn't really hit him yet. Give him time, obviously if he married you, he is committed to you and the baby. Just try to relax, and enjoy the last few days of sleep filled nights.
And Congratulations on your marriage and future birth.
2007-03-02 12:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jenni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people are nervous wrecks, like me....and others don't get that worked-up, and I think it's a small thing to worry about, what's great is that the two of you are bringing this baby into the world and trying to make a go of it with a two parent loving atmosphere. You should feel proud of the two of you!
2007-03-02 12:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. a hug from a stranger sure ,shop your hand on your wallet. 2. driving a Toyota ,don't have one 3. loaning a relative money, kiss it good bye. 4. making use of a public rest room sure ,I evade the sitting down, i'm sorry for you women folk. 5. elevators- they don't difficulty me. 6. public talking , that could difficulty me , yet I surely have had to do it. 7. finding your way on the hours of darkness, sure .I surely have a number of flashlights. one in all guy's suited innovations. 8. getting a medical doctors actual examination; try consequences -sure on no account a relaxing time. 9. super breed canine -No, my rule is canine could be a minimum of two times as huge as a cat to be called a canine, Jake is 130lbs of canine. 10. super parking lots- sure ,I hate forgetting the place I parked.
2016-10-17 03:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, my man is the same way and my guess is yours and mine are both nervous, but just not telling us. Many men feel they need to be the strong supportive one in the relationship and it is also hard for some men to discuss their feelings. He is just trying to take care of you. So I wouldn't worry about it, I tease my boyfriend every now and then and jokingly I let him know, that I know, he is not as calm as he appears.
2007-03-02 12:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I believe it is normal and I believe that for some the message could mean that he is being responsible. You are both young and hopefully a long future ahead so why not ask him what his plans are for your new addition to your family.
Best wishes,
2007-03-02 12:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we were a bit older than you when i first got pregnant but, my husband wasn't nervous in the least. maybe he just hid it well. he was great through the whole thing. best of luck to you.
2007-03-02 12:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋