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You had a friend who was pregnant at the same time as you. My friend hates to see me buy stuff for my daughter she is always saying little funny stuff. Would you continue being her friend or stop talking to her until we both have our babies!

2007-03-02 09:01:41 · 9 answers · asked by $Bl@Ck BuTtAfLy$ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

I'm living lifa as a single mother. She has a husband who doesn't give her money to buy anything for herself let alone a child. I'm in the Military so i make my own money and can do what i want. How can i not feel bad when i see stuff for my baby and buy it because i like it? She is always saying you don't need to buy that or thats cut but i wouldn't buy it. I just want my daughter to have everything i didn't!

2007-03-02 09:17:50 · update #1

9 answers

its obvious that she's jealous or envious of you and your ability to buy your daughter things she need, I would ignore her let the haters hate she'll be alright. Just never let her watch your baby,, on the real its not good to leave your child with someone as jealous as she is. and yea jus limit yall distance wit eachotha till u both have ur babies.

2007-03-02 09:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 1 · 0 0

Sounds like she is not happy about being pregnant and is trying to steal your joy. Really, you teach people how to treat you. The next time she does this ask her what she means by that. Remember to use I statements. You know, when you do that I feel. . . If she persists, I would let her know that I wouldn't be around her until she can control herself. Pregnancy hormones are no excuse.

2007-03-02 09:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 1 0

I do have a friend who is further along than me. She kinda acts like I'm inferiorly pregnant because I don't know my baby's gender yet and things like that. Plus everyone else who knows us is contantly comparing. I'd say continue to be her friend but let her know it's okay for the two of you to handle your pregnanies differently.

2007-03-02 09:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1 0

She's jealous. People who can't have what they want tend to act like that. I would ask her why she says stuff like that the next time she does it and see what she says. You'll be able to tell whether or not she's genuine when she answers.

2007-03-02 09:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by pinaymom 2 · 0 0

I'm just sitting here totally confused about why she needs her husband to give her money. Married people should have joint bank accounts with equal access to them. The truth is, she's mad at her husband and taking it out on you. Maybe you just need to remind her who she's really angry at.

2007-03-02 09:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by daisyk 6 · 1 0

i would confront her about it...

thats no reason to drop a friend

2007-03-02 09:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mariam S 2 · 1 0

be honest with her and tell her it bugs , however i would stay friends and support each other

2007-03-02 09:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 5 · 1 0

tell her to grow up she is gonna be a mom she needs to stop acting so immature

2007-03-02 09:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

This is the craziest question??????????????

2007-03-02 09:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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