Please Don't Judge me. When i was 16 I got pregnant & ended up having an abortion because i could'nt tell my parents. 2 this day they still don't no. It was the worst thing i have ever had 2 do. I'm 17 Now and a few nights ago i went 2 a party & got very drunk and woke up in someones bed. I cant remember what happened that night but he said we had sex. I'm scared I'm pregnant again? I can't tell my mom or dad. What shall i do? I won't / Can't go threw another abortion! please help.
2007-03-02 07:42:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OMG - BIRTH CONTROL PEOPLE!!! JESUS CHRIST!
2007-03-02 07:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 1⤋
I am from a real religious family, and from experience, sometimes you feel like there are things you can't tell your parents because you picture in your mind how bad they will react. Think about how they would react finding out you had an abortion. You have to deal with the consiquences of your actions of getting drunk and not knowing what happened. Not that you have to raise the child if you are pregnant, but have the baby and give it up for adoption. Your parents may be upset at first, but trust me, time will heal your parents being upset. They may see how you can deal with this situation maturely by doing the right thing for this child. TELL YOUR PARENTS and GIVE THE CHILD UP FOR ADOPTION IF IN 9 MONTHS YOU DONT BELIEVE NOW IS THE TIME FOR YOU TO HAVE CHILDREN! I am a mother of two boys and can't have any more. I would love to adopt a girl one day. You can make someones life everything they want it to be by giving them the child they can't have. On another note, maybe the guy can help with some advice on how he feels about a child. Hope this helps.
2007-03-02 16:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by j girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago was 'a few nights ago'? There's something called 'the morning after pill' that you can get as an emergency prescription. As long as you start taking it BEFORE the zygote implants in the uterine wall, then the pills keep implantation from occurring. If it has already implanted, then the pills have no affect whatsoever on the embryo.
I agree with the previous posters, though--if you're going to be having sex, use birth control. And, to be completely honest, if you can't handle th possible consequences of sex (such as an unplanned pregnancy), then you should abstain until you CAN handle those consequences.
Good luck!
2007-03-02 15:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Christal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't people know that there is birth control out there and you can get it through Planned Parenthood? Hello!!
Why don't you do the right thing and talk with your parents, why put all this pressure on your self? Just talk with them and get it over with. Legally they can not kill you, although you may wish they had after they rag on you for a while. You will live, and maybe you won't be pregnant after all. Talk with them, give them a chance to help you.
You took mattes into your own hands last time and you have felt the sting from your last decision ever since. Don't make the same mistake twice, talk with your parents. They love you lots.
Good luck to you. You need your parents now, let them be there for you as any good parent would.
2007-03-02 15:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kind of relationship you have w/ your mom, but it sounds like it needs to be improved upon. You parents probably are like most and love you very very much. It will disapoint them, but I think you should tell someone in your family who can help you make a good decision. You don't necessarily have to tell them about the abortion, but I do suggest some counseling for you. Many pregnancy centers could help you at this point. They can give free pregnancy test (at some) and also talk about options and even have counseling for your previous abotion. I really hope that things work out for you. I know you are scared, but take this as a learning opportunity to be more wise in your decisions next time. ALWAYS have a girl friend to be accountable to- someone trustworthy who won't let you get in those situtations.
2007-03-02 15:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by FreeTruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, looking back at your previous question from 4 days ago, you said you were bulimic. You need to get to a hospital right now and gt the help you need. You can also discuss your options with the pregnancy and they will be able to help you tell your parents. But get help for the eating disorder. You will hurt your baby if you don't.
Oh yeah, and a few weeks ago you were asking what it was like to have an abortion because your sister was going to. I don't like liars and it is sick that you can make such a joke about these things. You think it's funny to kill a baby??
2007-03-02 15:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by tmac 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, like the last person said, birth control for the future, but of course that does you NO good right now. How about the morning after pill? It is NOT an abortion pill!!!! Some uneducated people will claim otherwise but a little research is all it takes. Now the morning after pill can be purchased w/o a prescription, although you must be 18 but i am sure you can find a buyer for you. go to morningafterpill.org.
2007-03-02 15:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amber 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first stop panicking and go to the doctors to see if you are pregnant. If you hurry you can take the day after pill which can help prevent pregnancy after having sex up to 72 hours later. but i do not condone that. If you are pregnant you have to tell your parents they will be upset for a while but you need their support. so many young girls go with out support of their parents because the are afraid of what they might say or how they might react. but be more afraid of what's out their alone raising a child. what ever your choice is I wish you good luck. also please try to make better decisions with your life it is so much things that are going around your life is so much more valuable than the way your treating it.
2007-03-02 16:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am not one to judge. Do you have something like a Planned Parenthood near by?? You can take the morning after pill. This is good for not sure if your prego or not; it works up to I think 72 hours after having unprotected sex. Check it out. I also would suggest/recommend... (From a mothers point of view): You go and get on some birth control, and get check asap for stds.
2007-03-02 15:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kimm Heard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...well first of all It's best to relax. i know that's easier said than done, but it's early for you to start panicing. wait a few days and see if you start your period. or go buy a couple of pregnancy tests. also, are you sure you can trust this guy? he may have just said that because it was obvious you had no idea. anyway, you will just have to wait it out a few days. then afterwards and you ( hopefully) find out you aren't pregnant, you should stay clear of alcohol. if you are going to drink, drink it slowly and be more responsible. i'm not judging, but you are only seventeen and still have a lot of growing up to do. it may also be wise to get some birthcontrol.
2007-03-02 15:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait and see if you are pregnant. If you aren't, you can learn from this lesson. If you are, you have some major decisions to make.
There are options other than abortion. But they all involve telling your parents. If you are, then I suggest telling them. You don't need to sit around worrying about who's going to say what...it's too much stress. I know it's going to be hard...trust me I know!! But in the end things worked out for me and I know they will for you too.
I wish you all the best (and that you are not pregnant.)
2007-03-02 15:49:28 · answer #11 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋