My best friend and i have been close for 3 years basically best of friends. then recently there is another girl who we have both been friends with in the past who started hanging out with her all the time. My best friend is rude to me and picks at fights with me so she has an excuse to not hang out with me. I told her how i was feeling left out and she said o no dont worry your not being replaced but then she just would try to hang out with her more and through it in my face and try to make me feel bad. Now they hang out everyday and im never talking on the phone with her or hanging out with her. She had all this stuff about me on her myspace and she changed it and put the other girls name. It makes me feel horrible because i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to even though i have so many more close friends. What should i do?
2007-02-19 20:01:37 · 3 answers · asked by confused girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find someone who deserves someone as loyal as you. When she's lost you, she'll realise what she had.
Good luck
2007-02-19 20:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by kittycat123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that given your instincts plus the actions of your friend that she is not worth keeping as a friend, even though her words to you might contradict that. Either she doesn't want to be honest with you and create a scene, or she is just not telling the truth for whatever reason.
Friends come and go and can be flaky or even betray you for many reasons... The only advice I can give is to trust your own feelings and don't try to be a friend with someone who is not going to reciprocate your friendship 100%, otherwise they are not really a friend. I would just cut all contact with this person and move on.
2007-02-19 20:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, if you can. Me? My friends dumped me just this morning. But, I guess i just have to move on. It is the only thing that i can do now. Coz, maybe, they won't forgive me.
2007-02-19 22:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by cute10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋