Like my boyfriend has been shut off since the beginning of our relationship and i have do everyting just to have him open up to me. I have changed my whole personality just to please him and nothing has changed. He gives me no affection and never tells me i am pretty. Like it is getting so bad that i used to have a lot of confidence and now i have none. And he tells me that when i change so will our relationship and it hasnt. I am loosing a lot of sleep my stress level is so high i cant even go a day with out crying. I AM ASKING YOU GUYS IN THE WORLD, WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO?
2007-02-14 09:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by christina_v06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've put in the work and if he doesn't want to work at it then break it off.
2007-02-14 09:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I really hope your over 21. If not your wasting your time even asking this question. If he's really being distant and shows no affection all you need to do is walk away. He has. He just wasn't able to man up and do it. He's hoping you'll do it for him because he's weak and he probably wants to try to look like he was the good guy through it all. Relationships are hard. Some work out and others don't. As you start having real relationships over time you start meeting people who have gotten past their kid stage and learn how to express what they want. And it's not always good. If your really going through all that, you need to move on with your life and live it. If your gonna try to stick it out, I suggest getting a therapist. Hope that helps. , )
2007-02-14 17:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by spiritius4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, just break up with the bum. Why do you even want him? He's not your guy and you can't fix it and why even try when there's so many other guys out there in the world. Kick him to the curb and tell him to go find someone else to make miserable and get yourself a new guy.
2007-02-14 17:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I've said before:
In the famous words of an Oprah guest:
"HE'S JUST NOT THAT "IN" TO YOU!"
Let him go.....break it off....you've spent your last tear, sad feeling, and insecurity over him!
You're too good for that!
Now----go and be happy and you'll attract someone better!
2007-02-14 17:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by iwonder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. It is not worth it. Why do you have to change your whole sense of being for someone. You are, who you are......and if you have to beg someone to love you ---what is wrong with you. Even a Dog will leave if you kick him enough times.
Dump him - believe me --he will not treat you any better if you change. Proving, and proving --why don't he prove that he is worthy of your love. HELLO!!
2007-02-14 18:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Blooming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with a guy like that? Are you that desparate?
Find a real boyfriend who knows what a relationship is.
2007-02-14 17:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. you shouldnt have to change to please anyone. tell him you are threw with changing so if he still loves you he better shape up and open up.
2007-02-14 17:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by annabanana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM
2007-02-14 17:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by dovey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋