I am only 13 years old and i am pregnant but i am scared to tell anyone. Help?

Answer 1

Awe hon,You must be scared,But tell me,..is it scarier to tell someone, or to do it alone. and you definitely cannot do this alone, hell grown women need support from friends,and family!!

I think your best bet is to tell your mother first,be honest,don't keep secrets,the sooner you tell her the better,also,since your a single mom,you can get WIC,and government aid ,and PASSPORT to pay for ALL the hospital bills, so sign up ASAP.

Also get yourself to a doctor and pronto,you need to start prenatal care for you and your baby!

Answer 2

Your going to need your mom and dad. I know this will be hard, but being young you may have a harder time with delivery and will need that support more now than ever. There may also be some decisions that you may need to make that your parents must sign for. I'm sorry for your situation. Also, I would go to a school counselor and tell your problem. They can help you discuss how to tell your parents and what is the best way. Also, you have to think about what happens when time comes for you to have your baby. They will notice eventually. Even if they do not notice how are you going to explain to your parents a baby being brought home. How are you going to get the prenatal support you need? There are many things that are going to change. How are you going to stay in school? I really don't mean to scare you more, but I am trying to show you the reality of your situation. I'm really not trying to come off as harsh. I can't help but be sad. I think of my child being that age and it is heart wrenching to me. They may be mad at first, but they will love their grandchild and they will not stop loving you. I do hope though that you will learn from what has happened and get on birth control and use condoms if you decide to have sex again.

Answer 3

Honey, don't listen to anyone who tells you abortion is the answer. It is not! It is murder! You now have a precious little baby inside of you who needs your love and for you to be healthy. It is definetely the right thing to tell your parents. And They Can Not Legally Force You To Have An Abortion. They will be shocked at first, but give them some time to let it sink in. Let them know that you need support and encouragement right now...not stress because it is bad for you and the baby. You'll need to have your parents talk to the parents of the father of your baby. They should sit down and talk together, after you have told the father of your child that you are pregnant.
If the worst happens and neither set of parents will give any support and want you to have an abortion, then find a good Christian pregnancy center/shelter. They will pour love and support upon you and give you a place to live for you and your baby after he/she is born. Or you can at least go there often for encouragement and just to have someone listen and give you good, healthy advice.
Ok, God Bless you and your baby and I'll be praying for you!

PS: No matter what happens with the parents, you need to go to a good doctor soon to get pre natal vitamins and discuss how the pregnancy will be for your body.

Answer 4

The only people you can go to is your parents. There is no easy way out. The longer you wait the longer it is to have an abortion. If your wanting to keep the baby. It will only upset your parents more. You need to go to the doctor right away. I'm sure there is a crisis hot-line in your area that you could call and get help. I know your young and scared this isn't easy. But, you need to tell some one you can trust thats an adult, that can help and understand. That could go with you to tell you parents. Maybe a school counselor or a teacher. Aunt, sister, or older cousin. You might be surprised and relief.

Answer 5

Wow you're a teenage mom just like me well when I figured out I was pregnant I was a bit scared I told my boyfriend and he was 17 at the time about to be 18 meanwhile I was 14 and he took full responsibility he attended school in the morning and he worked in the afternoon little by little we raised money and rented a apartment then we lived there for a year I was 2 months at the time with my beautiful baby girls.I must admit my parents were furious to know that their daughter was pregnant with twins but in the other hand they supported me through out my pregnancy as well as my boyfriend and his family.I continued my education meanwhile my boyfriend worked his butt off to support me and my girls.After I had my daughter's I went back to school I mean all this was extreamly hard it was a struggle because I had to go to school,finish assignments that were due the next day,I had to feed,dress,and clean my babies as well.Six months after that I started to work because we started to go low in cash and I didn't want to recieve Wel-fare for my children because I thought " I had my children and I decided to take responsibility so now is the time to take action and have an idea about what life was really about" so I did most people didn't want to hire me because of my age until I started to work for a shoe store I earned decent money I started off with $11.50 an hour which I thought that it was alot especially if you didn't even had references.So the advice I give you is have your baby after all it isn't she/he's fault but it's your's and your partner I wish you luck =)

Answer 6

I am not your mother or father but girl why are you doing having sex at such a young age. Is your boyfriend pressuring you or what. I think you are in need of attention from yuor parents. Get it from them.

Now that you are pregnant tell your parents and try to find out what the best decicions is to take at this moment. I am pro-life, but that is your decicion to take no one can do that. The same way you took the decicion to have sex take the decicion of what you want to do. And grow up now talk to your parents.

Good luck and remember don't have sex until you are older and independent and mature.

Answer 7

Oh my god. Why were you even having sex at age 13? You are a baby and you do not need a baby. tell your mom and i am sure she will take you to a abortion clinic. I feel sorry for you that your parents could care less about what you do.

Answer 8

Well, someone has to know, eventually.
I know you're frightened, but there are options and you can only access them if you tell someone sooner rather than later. Is there some teacher or close family friend who you'd feel more comfortable confiding in? You need to tell someone who can help you through this.

Answer 9

Well this is not going to be easy. Best bet is to tell your parents first...sit them down and say you made a mistake and now you are expecting. Let them notify the boys parents that you all need to sit down and talk then let him and his parents know as well. Your parents need to help you in making a decision that is best for you health wise. I hope this has taught you a lesson. Best wishes.

Answer 10

Aww hun you gots to do something FAST!!!the longer you wait the harder its going to be then it will be too late to really decide on what to do!! you need to tell someone...and if your scared to tell your parents you need to tell a counsulor at your school..or call a hotline to figure something out! or try planned parenthood..girl you need to do something soon and fast!! cause you gots to remember you got a living person inside you! i wish you the best of luck!!