how do you get back at someone who said something hurtful?

Question

a guy at my collge said some really mean things to me and i was just wondering if anyone had a suggestion for any form of payback thanks

Answer 1

Try showing you're the stronger person by ignoring.

An old Chinese proverb; "Revenge always has one foot in the grave."

Answer 2

Try hiding frozen squid/calamari in their backyard, beneath shrubs and under rocks, etc...The key here is they have to be frozen. They will only begin to smell after a day or so. During that day of thawing, walk up to this person and ask them if they have been swimming with the fish. Within a few days, the stench from their backyard will be so putrid, cats from all over the neighborhood flocking to the scene, and your guy will be clueless.

In your case, since it maybe a dorm room, I have a better suggestion, or "Option B". Order a set of prank envelopes from a site such as, http://www.prankplace.com/envelopes.htm, or Specer Gifts and include a bunch of offensive pictures (of your choice). One of my favorites was an envelope that read "Herpes Test Results".
If he lives in a dorm, most likely all of the mail is collected at the front counter, where students work. He'll go to check his mail, and the receptionist will pull out the embarrasing envelope. The cool thing about this, is that you don't really know how many people will see it. Ive sent these to some of my good buddies in college, and one of them said three people at the front desk saw the envelope and all knew him!!


Finally, option C would be to ignore him because he is a total prick, and you are better than him. Next time you see him, smile real big and slap him on the back, to show him it doesn't bother you. I guarantee he'll stop.

Answer 3

Revinge is mine sayeth the Lord! Keep this in mind as you contemplate what you will do and as you think about it think of how he would feel every day waiting for the revienge that will not come for you are the better person. Just asking for advise proves that you were not sure that it would be the right thing to do. Be you Ignore Ignorance, Be Better.
God Bless.

Answer 4

Revenge never makes you feel any better. When someone says hurtful things to you, its best just to look at them and say something like," What have I done to you to make you want to hurt me like that"? This really hits home to some people. Also remember that there is a Universal Justice System, and remember what you sow is what you reap, so he will get his one day trust me.

Answer 5

Just forget about getting revenge it never results to a positive outcome. If anything you will have an issue because you weren't wise enough to ignore this person. Getting back doesn't solve anything!!! Keep on living life like there's no tomorrow =D

Answer 6

I agree that the best revenge would be to treat him as if he doesn't exist. Don't even look at him when he's around and go about your own business. That'll give you the upper hand & really make him feel like the slug that he is.

Answer 7

step 1 tell him he is a lucky man cause his girl is one hot thing in bed
step 2 $hit in his shoe
step 3 urinate on his door multiple times
step 4 ask an embarrassing question around a large crowd like "hey man did you end up getting that syphilis cleared up"
step 5 steal his ID and assume his identity and begin his criminal record
step 6 feel like the bigger more clever person in this case because you know you won!!!!
i hope some of these ideas worked for you cause they have for me in the past
cheers!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Revenge very likely is not going to make you feel better. It might even make you feel worse because you sunk to their level. Do some "house cleaning" in your life. Get rid of that person in your life. If they speak to you, pretend they have not said a word.

Answer 9

Seriously, the best thing for you to do is to pray for him. I'm not a very religious person, by the way. Things will change within 2 wks if you pray for him every day.

Answer 10

Let it go because what your wanting to do is premeditated. Let it go it will be best this way and if that person ever says anything again , just reply with something like this. ,,,,Okay if it makes you feel better, No skin of my back... and walk away.