Okay, so my friend has asked me several times if her butt is big. The truth is yes. YES. Her butt is huge and I don't know if I should tell her the truth or lie. In fact I don't even know what answer she wants. HELP!.
2007-01-08 11:03:35 · 14 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would ask her "How truthful would you like the answer to be?" Hopefully she'll laugh and stop asking you the question.
2007-01-08 11:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you say... you're not going to please her. You know her better than we do, so if you said yes, would she turn on you ?
I always think that although honestly is usually the best policy...Your relationship with a friend is a precious thing - and are you willing to risk that ? Would you really want to hurt your friend with the truth ?
It sounds to me that she's asking for acceptance,and validation -and not necessarily if her butt is too big. I mean, if it's that huge, wouldn't she have SOME idea already ?
I would tell her to ask someone else, because you love her just the way she is, and you really haven't noticed her butt.
It's a hard question, and a hard question to answer, so just go with your heart.
2007-01-08 19:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's when you see a 44 year old man who weighs 331 lbs. start break dancing to "I like big butts and I cannot lie"! Then she can drive me to the Emergency Room because at my age the mind is willing but the body is not........
2007-01-08 19:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see....
If my friend walked up to me and asked if I thought her butt was big... I think I would ask back.. " Well, what do you consider big?"
If her butt is smaller than a Condominium Complex , just answer..well let's just say .."It could be bigger" that outta make her day (lol)..
Good Luck
2007-01-08 20:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that first answer is really good... she's obviously looking for reassurance and is perfectly aware that she's got a big behind! lying to her is probably not convincing, even if it's what she wants to hear. i like the idea above of laughing it off and saying, "what do you think? and why does it matter to you. i think you're beautiful and charming and fabulous," followed by a big smile and a hug.
2007-01-08 19:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by nystrele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't want to look at her butt, and she should ask someone of a different gender.
2007-01-08 19:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by TheTruthHurts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. she was asking for your honest opinion and she certainly would love to hear that you will say that her butt is huge. an obsession of hers that you should satiate.
2007-01-08 19:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lie, Lie, Lie, Lie and Lie again.
People with big butts know it. Tell her what she wants to hear, just don't let her see your nose growing.
2007-01-08 19:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Edward W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In light of the fact you will make your own decision anyways, consider this, if you looked in the mirror what would you see? When she is asking you she is not asking herself how she looks she's asking you.
2007-01-08 19:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just laugh and say, "What do you think? I don't make it a practice to stare at people's butts."
2007-01-08 19:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋