I'm young and as pure as purity gets. I have not dated anyone, kissed anyone, or had sex. But I'm so horny and yearn for a relationship. I want my first times to be with someone special, but I haven't found that person yet. I'm getting impatient, but I don't want my lust/horniness to get the best of me. What should I do?
2007-01-05 19:43:33 · 25 answers · asked by JenYA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm over 18.
Masturbation does not suffice.
2007-01-05 19:51:22 · update #1
Keep looking lol he will be there somewhere i promise you! if you hold it in - it really will be worth it!!!! and to be honest hun - its not that great first time - dont build it up so much! it really only gets good when you are doing it lots!!!!! as you may know i am not a woman - but i have known a few and they all say the same! one thing i will say hun - no point waiting for mr right - he a)doesnt exist and b) you wont grow old and die with him either. "waiting for mr right" is unpractical matey! but its upto you - its your life - decide for yourself what is best for you - let no one tell you what to do! and if you need anymore advice dont hesitate to get in touch!
2007-01-05 23:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by loco_purple_haze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, masturbate
if thats not an option for you (religion, personal belief, etc) then try to control it and turn it into a sense of power, self-esteem and confidence.
Growing up your hormones WANT to get the better of you, when you're out of control, they are then satisifed
I'd like to finally offer one bit of advice: Continue waiting for the right person, and DO NOT jump into it, wait at least 3 months and if she/he is pressuring you, walk away. I'll be honest, I rushed into it and slept with someone who I later found out was infected with HIV. Thankfully it was not transmitted as I used a condom, but you never know is the point, get to know ALL of your partners, male and female, VERY well before you do anything.
You're young, you have your life ahead of you, enjoy yourself as best as you can, and remember masturbating never hurt anyone except for those people that do it 40000 times a day and then inflict rugburn :P
2007-01-06 03:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by HL2k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy yourself first. Take time to explore your own body. Pleasure yourself. Masturbate and relieve the tension. You will be surprised how much better you will feel. Also, it is great experience for when you do have sex. Your knowledge of your body and what feels good to you will be very useful. Don't be in a hurry. Take your time and when the time is right make sure you use a condom.
2007-01-06 03:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to be careful and make sure you have safe sex. I hope you are at least 18. If not wait until you are. Get a nice guy who is not going to use you just for sex.
2007-01-06 03:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a dildo and make that special person you. Then, once you've relieved the tension, go out and mingle. You'll eventually meet someone and fall madly in bed. The End
2007-01-06 03:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect too much out of your first time; it's not guaranteed to be all that great anyway. But it's a requirement to get to the second time, and third time...
If you like somebody, and they like you, do what you feel like. As long as nobody gets hurt - emotionally or physically, there's nothing wrong.
2007-01-06 03:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by eldad9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please dont tell me that you're pure. you may be a virgin doesnt mean that you're pure. purity comes with thoughts, deeds and actions.
anyways, the answer to this depends on whether you want to have pre or post marital sex. if you're interested in the former then give me a break, dont speak about purity. but if you're really concerned about your virginity, then wait for your special person.
your special person may be someone known to you or close to you. he'll come to you one day.
2007-01-06 03:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Adam Love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take ur own virginity with a dildo from the sex shop. At least no cro magnon brat will then get to boast about it.....plus you can hold out as long as you like then till you find someone decent
2007-01-06 03:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by b-overit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
control youself. youre growing up thats why you feel such way. its not bad. just that make sure your yearn dun come into ur way. when its urs, it will be. the day will come. but just tat you should take it naturally and not things in your own hands. you can perhaps learn to distract yourself with such thots by exercising more, doing things you love to do (pastimes,hobbies), go out with friends or engage yourself at home =)
2007-01-06 03:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by pink-cookies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st off, how old are you? If your really young, as i suspect you are....you just have to wait. That special relationship and that special night will come.. You don't even have to look for him..he will find you. Just wait...be patient with love.
2007-01-06 03:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by yellowmedia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋