I met this guy at my job, there was a sudden attraction between the two of us. We exchanged numbers and began talking on the phone. Through our conversations I found out that he was married. He said that although he is married, he has no marital relationship with his wife. He said that during the time they were together she got very sick and lost her job. She could no longer afford a place of her own and her medication was very costly. So he agreed to help her by marrying her solely for insurance purposes and gave her a place to stay. She is bipolar with some schizophrenic episodes.
2007-01-03 02:19:16 · 42 answers · asked by besitos111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Young lady, I'm bipolar,ADHT,PTSD just to name a few and he's feedin' you a line of crapola!!!!
2007-01-03 02:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by nbr660 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the person who said that they always have a sad story when they are looking to cheat. I mean there is no way to really know for sure beyond your actually meeting his wife and speaking to her about it (and considering that he is most likely lying and also her "condition") is most likely not going to happen. I would just cut your losses and move on because this seems to risky to even mess with and do you really want to be part of his whole scheme especially when you are also a pawn in since he is most likely using you for a booty call? I hope you can get past your physical attraction for this guy and use your head on this because it seems like if you get involved with this man, a lot of people (including yourself) are going to end up used and hurt. Take care and good luck:)
2007-01-03 02:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe that men are going to tell u exactly what they think u want to hear, they often tell the girlfriend that they never loved the wife, that there was never a relationship between them. think he may have contributed to her mental state also, and this is not someone u need to start a relationship with. if u believe this than u will believe anything anyone tells u, u are being lied to, and he just wants the obvious out of u, and has no intention of leaving his wife for u. he certainly paints a very caring person of himself, helpful and concerned about his wife, but in reality he could be just completely lying to u.
2007-01-03 02:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's full of crap, and several other things as well. He is married. He is a very bad liar. Do you know how many men say they aren't getting any at home? Every single one of them who's trying to get into someone else's pants. Stay away from this jerk. The sob stories will continue as long as he thinks he has a shot.
2007-01-03 02:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Firespider 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whether he is or isn't doesn't matter, the facts are (1) he's married and (2) she's crazy. Do you need to deal with the DRAMA??? And there will be drama. Holler at him when he's left the situation behind. If he married her to help her get her medicine, that was mighty noble of him; however, doesn't he deserve a better life for himself. If you accept things the way they are, he'll never re-evaluate his situation. He needs to be looking out for his own well-being. If she is not working, she can get medicare for her medicine!
2007-01-03 02:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, find someone who isn't attached. How can anyone believe they can have a healthy relationship with a married man. You just met him...... you work together. Find someone who has time for you if he is telling the truth,he'sgot his hands full.
2007-01-03 02:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a whole bunch of mess that I wouldn't want to get tied up into. First of all, even if their relationship isn't sexual, it's financial which is as personal as sex if you think about it. There are all sorts of ways that he's in a better position than you even if it's true. If it's not true . . . you know the rest.
2007-01-03 02:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 09:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who married this guy just to stay in the US. it was a mutual agreement and they have no marital life either. it was all for the legal benefits... basically, a friend just helping out another friend.
this doesn't answer your question, but it casts doubt on whether or not this guy is truly full of crap.
2007-01-03 02:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ranlian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he is if all he told you is true call his wife and talk to her about it, if everything he told you is true she will vouch for him and he shouldn't mind that you make the call. But don't expect to see much of him after that he will be busy at home begging his wife for forgiveness and not to throw him out.
2007-01-03 02:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by puzzled 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this man seems to have some sort of weird phsycotic mind that should NOT be trusted. My advice would be to stay away because that is too far fetched to be true.
*thank you come again*
2007-01-03 02:23:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋