I'm kind of a hairy guy here....and I'm deciding on removing some of the hair especially from places like the back, thighs, butt, and my armpits. A few reasons are pushing me to do this is, one, cause I'm quite young and I dont prefer lots of hair at my age....secondly....lots of women have said that they dont really like having sex with men with a lot of body hair.....I'm not gonna remove all....I'm leaving the hair on my arms, chest and lower legs.....I need your opinions please....especially women.....
2006-12-27 18:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
sigh. Y'know, a lot of the mens mags are pushing this idea, and I think its silly. Hairy men are masculine in my opinion - and a hairless butt? thats a bit weird. I suspect the "women" who dont like body hair are quite young themselves - and have not been with many "manly men" but rather boys on the verge of being men (I'm guessing under the age of 25) There is nothing wrong with hairy guys - some women are very attracted to them. I dont have a preference either way - have had both, and can tell ya, its much more about personality. Couch this in different terms: there are short women and tall women - you probably prefer one, but would go out with the other as well - you might even fall in love with her.....its really not so different in your case. Most folks aren't going to have an opinion on the matter. I suspect because you are sensitive about the subject, that you tend to pay more attention to the negative things that are said.
Dont worry about it - and please leave it alone. Women find guys that are that vain or insecure about their looks to actually do something like that (get hair removal done) a little weird.
2006-12-27 18:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you mind having sex with hairy women (meaning, do you want them to have shaved pits, legs, bikini, etc.)? Some women don't like hair -- some do. It's all about personal preference. My step-dad looks like a blond gorilla with his shirt off, but my mom still loves him. I, personally, have never cared either way if a guy I was with had a lot of hair or not. Women tend to date guys more on the emotions that come with the relationship, not the physical features.
2006-12-27 18:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by severina418 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think younger girls may not dig on the hair thing. I am 36 and for the first time with a hairy guy. He used to clip it which I didn't mind but now he is keeping natural. I think I prefer it this way. I tell him it is more "manly"..that when he shaves it is kind of "gay". Though, when I was in my 20's, I did prefer less or no hair.
2006-12-27 18:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the back hair
but the rest should stay
REAL men have hair
REAL women like a hairy chest
2006-12-27 20:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by daisyhuff4 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't go crazy and look too smooth and gay unless you are buff body-builder then no hair is great.
I have dated a few hairier men the only hair that bugged me was on shoulders and back. Chest and legs are sexy.
2006-12-28 06:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair on the back and shoulders is gross! as far as on the chest, its OK. Thighs, butt and armpits are supposed to have hair ( as long as its not real long) but you can also trim it because if you shave it, its only going to grow in darker and thicker. I hope this helps.
2006-12-27 18:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by redy2screm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't mind - my boyfriend is pretty hairy. When you remove it, it will itch, you'll have to keep it kept up, it can cause ingrown hairs. I think I guy that does that comes across as high maintenance, but thats just me.
2006-12-27 18:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by apuleuis 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you worried about the hair on your body you shouldnt cut it cause it is going to come back with more. You stimulating the hair when you cut it and the more you cut it the longer it is going to get.
2006-12-27 19:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would consider removing the hair from your butt and back. The rest of the areas should be fine.
2006-12-27 18:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Monica G 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just shave the ones that may get in the way.
with younger women, i think they're a bit squeamish about body hair, but older women may not think so...
everyone has their own turnons.
2006-12-27 19:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by JILL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋