this is a complicated situation that I have and I really need help...there are four guys in my life now which is more than I could handle...there is my ex-boyfriend who I broke up with and now I talk to as a friend but he really wants to be with me and wants me...there is this other guy who is my friend but he's hinting he wants to be more than that and is very protective of me and wants me to be with him the whole time and wants to know everything I do every second and gets mad when I tell him I can't talk right now my boyfriend is on the other line.my boyfriend is very jealous and wants me all for him and doesn't want me to talk to other guys.then there is this guy that I sort of broke up with but not exactly because we split up and went our separate ways and I thought that was a break up but now he's back in my life and is acting like my boyfriend but he doesn't know I have one because I know he'll be hurt because he loves me.I know it's wrong what I'm doing but what do I do help me
2006-12-25 02:33:36 · 4 answers · asked by plain person 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make up your mind about what YOU want....if you just want to play go ahead and play but have the guts to tell the guys that this is what you are doing...don't lead them on until you are sure of what you want.
Sounds like you should get a new crowd and start over
2006-12-25 02:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by kardea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, considering you have a boyfriend, it sounds like you've made a choice out of the four of them. Assuming you're happy with that choice, I would make it clear to the other two what your choice was. You should probably explain the situation to the old boyfriend because he deserves to know, he'll get over it. And finally, talk to your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel about his protectiveness and jealousy. That's what I would do.
2006-12-25 02:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more items you juggle, the more likely you are to drop and break ALL of them. You speak of ONE boyfriend, but you're pursuant of FOUR guys. You really must make up your mind...otherwise, you're going to give yourself a reputation.
2006-12-25 02:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by bradxschuman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself. Don't let other people push you around. Just because other people like you doesn't mean you owe them any favors. Just go on with your life and ignore anyone who tries to tell you what to do. You don't exist to please them. You are much more important than that. Find your true calling in life, and go for it!
2006-12-25 02:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by barx613 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋