and no preaching..I am married too
2006-12-15 11:46:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ummm....Let's see.....YOUR MARRIED! HE'S MARRIED! I mean really what other reason would you need to not committ adultry. And how would you feel if it wasn't you asking this question, yet your husband was?
2006-12-15 11:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cash 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well, since you don't want people to preach to you then why are you even asking then???? you've obviously thought alot about it, and you'll probably end up doing it anyways, and I just hope that your husband and/or his wife finds out too, so that they can divorce you both. Why do you want to do this? why not get divorced first, and then go and sleep with this guy all you want??? You just come off in a bad light. I guess you'll just have to deal with the consequences of your decision, which you probably already made, you're just hoping someone can give you a reason not to do it? and If you need a reason not to do it, being married and him too..then why would you listen to any kind of reason anyone on here would have to give you?
2006-12-15 12:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by Iowa_Bound 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are prepared to lose your job, go for it. Marriage is not the problem here. You're not the first married woman to cheat. If you get into a relationship with a coworker, it can only end in either you or him quitting the job, or worse yet, getting fired from the job. If you go for it, be prepared to be fired tomorrow.
Am I the only one that thinks that married people cheat too?!?!
2006-12-15 23:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not preaching,this is simply facts that everyone knows.If you sleep with eachother you are both deceiving people that i guess you love.It will end horribly,unlike your fantasies,with lies and guilt and possibly destroying your whole work situation.Can u give yourself a sensible reason for all the hurt,drama and the fact that,yes,you both aren't good people.If u do cheat,i hope after destroying lives you both get off.Do u really want to be with a man who cheats on his wife.It's called control,divorce....use it & try not destroying lives for the holiday season.Or any other time!!!!!KIDS will be hurt too
2006-12-15 19:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put yourself in his wife's shoes and you'll see why you should keep your pretty clothes on. Why would you want to hurt your spouse and his and whoever else would be hurt because you think this guy is "hot"? Not a good reason to ruin your life or his. Also, if you work with him, how awful would it be to get involved and then you break it off because you were just s------g around? Wouldn't be much fun to work with him anymore.
2006-12-15 12:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Alexxandra1591 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only reason I can give would be. How would you feel if you were his wife? Think of what you would be destroying before you continue. You said your married also. Is your marriage that bad? You would be hurting your husband too. If you ever got caught you would be ruining more people then you think. It always comes out in the end you know.
2006-12-15 11:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by poopsie392002 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You already have two good reasons:
1. He's married.
2. You're married. There you go.
2006-12-15 14:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The reason that you should not it that you are BOTH MARRIED! If you've "fallen in love" with him then you need to figure out if you should even be married in the first place!
2006-12-15 11:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dena 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hello..........the fact that you're both MARRIED should be reason enough! Remember - what goes around comes around and sooner or later, everyone usually gets theres. Be careful, these are people's feelings you are dealing with not to mention your own. Once you cross that line, there's no turning back. Use YOUR head and not his!
2006-12-15 11:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by albert 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that s h i t right there be reeeeeeall easy to get INTO ( that part is all yummy rainbows) and a vicious motherf u c k e r to get out of once in!
(i see a rain shower of nasty consequences ahead for you - by your own hand)
Enjoy the sex! The goodies will be oh so sweet.... those delicious first kisses ( i be jealous yo ) but very short lived my dear friend - it will end in tears.
2006-12-15 13:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no matter what people here tell you, I feel for you cause I like a guy who's single though but I am married. I think the very good reason for me is "I will hurt people I care for" and I hope this is good enough.
2006-12-15 12:02:16 · answer #11 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋