My guy and I have been dating for about two months. He doesn't want to say that we are in a relationship because we are still getting to know each other. I really like him and I know he cares about me. Would I be cheating on him if I dated another guy. I don't want to exclude my self from meeting other people just because he's not ready for a relationship.
2006-12-14 07:41:24 · 16 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-14 07:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone through the same situation for 3 years with a guy. I was so confused but I went ahead and dated other guys because the guy I loved was not ready to commit. Go ahead and be free. Date other guys. If he really loves you he will come around eventually. Mine did because were married now!
2006-12-14 15:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Valley Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give the guy time. Dont cheat on him. Two months isnt that long wait till 4 months if he doesnt define the relationship by then then move on. Good luck.
2006-12-14 15:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, um, me being me and I'm very monogamous, I think you should meet other people, but if you like him and know he cares about you then maybe you shouldn't date anyone else, but still meet other people, are you talking about dating other people, is that what you meant by meeting other people? Then, I say no, if you like him and he likes you then honor that and don't be disrespectful and treat him like a piece of paper, trash, or dirt.
2006-12-14 15:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My general rule is this: He can take as long as he likes to decide if he wants to get serious or not. I don't have sex with anyone who is not my boyfriend. If we don't sleep together then I can date anyone, anytime.
Dating is the time to get to know people. Serious relationships are for a special few.
2006-12-14 15:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did but I was very up front about it too. The guy changed his mind very quickly when I told him "there's NO ring on my finger" about if were a "couple" or not. We got married 6 months after that! lol Got a divorce 7 years after that! Good luck to you!
2006-12-14 15:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not ready to be exclusive...then why not date other men? Maybe if he notices that you are dating more than just him...he'll realize that he does care about you and doesn't want to see you with other men. If he doesn't care...then he's probably not into you as much as you are into him.
2006-12-14 15:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by aak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is more than enough to know if you want to be in a relationship or not
2006-12-14 15:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not cheating but do u feel guilty cuz ur talkin to a guy then ur goin out with someone too think about it
2006-12-14 15:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by vLiiCiiOuS&YoUnG oRiiGiiNaL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not making it exclusive then go ahead. It shows you have enough respect for yourself to not wait on someone.
2006-12-14 15:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋