a mutual friend of mine set me up on a blind date with her cousin it took about 2 weeks for us to hook up but we would talk on the phone and all that he would call me at work and everything when we hooked up i went to his house it was during the day nonthing fancy we watched 2 movies and then i left and i figured i would leave before he gave me the hint dont want to wear my welcome out i did not wear sexy clothes and of course i did not have sex with him but it is like he dissapeared he hasnt called but then i haven't called him either what could he possibly be thinking did i maybe have some silly quirk that was just a total turn off or maybe he may have some funny felling that i may not be that interested whats up
2006-12-12 14:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it has only been a couple of days
2006-12-12 15:03:30 · update #1
Well, if it's only been a couple of days, don't panic. He might be busy. It's possible, though, that he just didn't feel the chemistry he was hoping for. that happens. Sometimes people meet, and they just click. Other times, well, you know.
Don't wait around for him to call. Don't sit by the phone. Go on living your life as you were before your movie date. If you're into him and he does call, great! But if he doesn't call, you're not wasting every waking moment on a no show.
2006-12-12 15:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Chrome Toaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were interested in you, he would call. Go ahead and call him if you want, but don't get disappointed when it doesn't turn into a big romance, because he isn't exactly on fire. Don't worry about why. Maybe he likes you but he doesn't feel the chemistry and he doesn't want to give you the wrong idea. Maybe he's interested in someone else.
Wait I wrote that before I read in your details it's only been a couple of days. I had the impression it was two weeks since you saw each other. Okay, take a deep breath! Not everybody believes in calling right away because it can sound desperate or pushy. Give him at least a week, or just call him yourself.
2006-12-12 23:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I interest you in some punctuation?
Hey, this happens all the time. He's not interested. It could be any of a hundred different things, but usually he just didn't feel a spark with you. No biggie, just find someone who thinks you're the fireworks on the Fourth of July.
2006-12-12 23:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by chris_in_columbia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-one here can tell you what he thinks. it sounds like he just isn't interested in you but there is the chance he could just be shy and waiting for you to make the first move. Call him, find out, ask him to get together-his answer will tell you how he feels. What do you have to lose?
2006-12-12 23:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things:
a. hes not intrested
b. he IS interested, but is just a shy person
c. Hes intimidated
d. he doesn't think hes good enough for you
e. he wants you to call
f. Hes just been busy
It could be anything really.
But dont stress about it.
And if you really like him, & hes worth it, take a chance. CALL HIM.
2006-12-12 23:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Julie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't have an answer to why he hasn't called, but I believe that you have way better things to do than to wait for his call. You're probably an awesome young woman and if he doesn't recognize it, that's his loss. What you may want to ponder on is this: Is he thinking and stressing over me as much as I am over him? If you don't think it's in your favor, then let it go. What one man doesn't recognize another will completely satisfy.
2006-12-12 23:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has your phone Number...he is not interested...and he knows where you live....he may not like the way you looked or the fact that you did not give him any...some guys are just jerks....or his ex called..its a million questions...we all been there sister...
2006-12-12 23:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you mutual friend to tell you the truth. Otherwise I'd say that if he doesn't have the spine to call you then he's not worth it.
2006-12-12 23:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did not call because he was expecting you to set him up with some sweet nookie. Stop acting like you don't understand what most men want when they are alone with a girl.
2006-12-12 23:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by DFlavor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call him whenhes likely not to be home or answer the phone..leave a message and if he doesnt call u back then uknow he just wasnt that into u
2006-12-12 23:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by lanah10101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋