i really like this girls who iv known fer 1 year and a half. problem is i like her. i really like her. but i dont no if she likes me. everytime i try to make a move on her, i freak out and sound stupid. sometime isk if she notices me. i dont see her out of school and i always think bout her. wth should i do?
2006-12-12 13:50:48 · 20 answers · asked by ak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u should just try to be as confident as possible around her and u'll think of something to say and it'll all work out.
Good Luck-
*girlygirl* 24/7
2006-12-12 13:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by cada-dia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
C'mon ... what's the worst that could happen?
•STEP 1: Take advantage of the telephone. If things start going south, you can excuse yourself from the conversation easily.
•STEP 2: Be sure to identify yourself when you call. This saves both of you from the uncomfortable "who?"
•STEP 3: Try not to blurt out your invitation. Ease into it. Start a conversation. If you start having second thoughts, you can always call back later.
•STEP 4: Make it easy on yourself. A movie is better than lunch or dinner. It doesn't require much conversation, and you don't end up staring at each other all night.
•STEP 5: Bring up a movie that's been recently released. Ask if she's seen it. If she has, you've opened the door to talking about films. If she hasn't, ask her if she'd like to.
•STEP 6: If she says no, be direct. Ask, "Is that a bad time or are you just not interested?" Her answer could surprise you, and you're leaving it up to her to decide how to handle it. If she's really your friend, she won't be brutal with you.
Tips & Warnings
•If you say you will call her, do it within a couple of days. Remember, she's your friend
2006-12-12 13:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many of us "hear voices" in the sense of imagine a voice other than ones own inside ones head. Using the term "sin," I would conclude you mean to call that conscience. OK, I'll go along with that. Appreciates good deeds? You can call that conscience too, if you like, but most people I know generally refer to conscience in the admonitory aspect, not the aspect of pride. Freud would have called it your superego. That is, the internalized authority on values. In any case, it's all your own mind.
2016-05-23 16:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no offense...but I don't think she likes you back. If she tried to go along with the move that you were making, then that would be a sign that she likes you. Maybe it's the way you're approaching her. Try to be more suttle and don't try to make any moves and just talk to her. See where it goes from there, and who knows? Maybe you two could wind up together! Good luck! ;-)
2006-12-12 13:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to try your best to just keep your cool and talk to her about it, its the only real way your going to find out... worst that can happen is that you find out that she doesn't like you in which case you will at least know this and can move on to someone else... if you don't talk to her she may end up with someone else and you will never really know if you could have had her as yours or not....
2006-12-12 13:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a few simple words for you MAN UP OR LOOSE HER. Tell her how you feel even if to you it sounds dumb for to her it might not sound so dumb it might sound sweet. Many men get nervous and think they sound dumb around women they like and or love but the women don't think so and in the end you get the girl you want as your woman so like i said Man up and by the way good luck
2006-12-12 13:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should ask her out, or at least try to be her friend. I'm having the exact same problem! I know how you feel.. but my crush has a lotta friends always around her soo.. yeah. But i still think you should talk to her, get to be her friend. then you can talk about stuff. ask her what she thinks of you. if she likes you, tell her how you feel. get her e-mail/screename.
-Good luck! I hope you do better than me! =D
2006-12-12 14:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by =\ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start talking to her like friends and see how things go on from there.
But never ever wait for HER to ask you out even if you know she likes you.
Be a man and ask her out if you really really really like her.
GO FOR IT!
2006-12-12 14:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Someone 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. It's hard to ask someone out, if you really like them. But, you have to do it. Go up to her and come out with it. Say, I would be hornered if you would go out with me. And be a gentelmen when your around her. The trick is, just be yourself.
2006-12-12 13:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by james_r_24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should get over your anxiety and just talk to her. She's just another person, you know. If she responds well to conversation, you might try asking her out. Good luck!
2006-12-12 13:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋