my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago.. i still love her and want her back, she said she is too young to be in a serious trelationship, we are both 19.. i took it hard, i begged her for nearly 2 weeks to take me back, i feel dump for begging, so im playing it cool now.. dats what ive been told to do if i want her back... she e mailed me today, i was just talking to her as a freind i acted as if i was fine... we where talkin bout casual stuff, then she asked me if i was interested in other girls.. i said no, then she said i bet u are ,u can tell me i dont mind... do you think this means she still has feelings for me? if she really didnt care she wouldnt have asked in the first place,,,, i want other peoples oppinions.thanks
2006-12-12 05:12:53 · 15 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants to bang other guys.
Dont take it so hard.
Asking for "space" like they do is like saying "I want the freedom to experience other guys".
Even when they say they just want to have time to themselves if a good looking player drops the right lines she will go out with him. Sorry to be so blunt.
The truth is, you should NEVER Beg any girl to be with you. You shrink to about 2 feet tall when you do that and guarantee she will never look at you the way she did when you got together.
Your best bet is to NOT call her ever and stop being pathetic, and go out with other chicks. There is no "one girl for me".
ITs psychological. Get out there and get some numbers.
2006-12-12 05:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love her, LOVE her then read this! She is right, she isn't ready for a serious thing, not yet! She wants to have fun, be stupid and not have to be mature and think about the future just yet! She wants to be with someone that can have fun, be there for her, and treat her great! If you want to be her boy-friend, then compromise! You want her in your life, she wants to live a little before settling down! If you want her back, tell her you have been thinking and you are young and want to have some fun before you get old, tell her you will always be there for her if she ever needs you and that she can talk to you about anything! Seriously be the sensitive guy!!!! She will realize that she has someone great in her life! Just let her think about that! And I'm here if you need anything, I.M. me!
2006-12-12 05:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by kwarrick210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep playing cool. She dumped you so you cant ask her to go back.
Dont talk casual stuff, tease her, like you dont care if she gets mad (whats she going to do, dump you?) Dont talk to her so often, let her take the first step. wait till she suggest to see each other. Go out with friends, have fun. Let her know it.
If she asks about other girls, dont be serious. Say somtheing like..yeah im dating j-lo. If she says c'mon im serious..ok ok ok..im not dating j-lo...its just christina aguilera...not such a good butt, but at least shes a nasty girl... get it? Thats teasing.
Never pissed, never sad, always happy. X-GFs hate his ex to be happy without them.
2006-12-12 05:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't care. She wants you to move on. And most likely the minute you find someone you like she will want you back. You are young and do not need to be in anything super serious. just date and enjoy life. I know you love her but she is saying she doesn't want it. If someone tells you that they don't want the same thing you do then they are not the one for you. I know it feels bad but i promise you will be okay.
2006-12-12 05:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Creola 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
James - you're trying to assist her determine out if she needs to spend some thing of her life with you . . . giving her distance may be functional . . . she's now calling YOU (so that you word that) .. . for the reason that she is the single which ended it, i'd watch for her to make contact...in case you do be sure to make it first, only deliver her a hey good day? casual communication form stuff. .. do not go out on that 'first' date yet...take your time reliable success
2016-10-18 04:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to make sure that you're ok and have really moved on, so that you guys can be friends again. I wouldn't look too much into it doesn't seem like she wants to get back with you she's just concerned as a friend.
2006-12-12 05:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by Die S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she cares because she's asking about other girls. She just wants to make sure you don't go on to live a happy, fulfilling life with another girl before she can meet a new guy. I think your beggin and moping around is a turnoff.
2006-12-12 05:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably confused. She loves you but is scared of taking a final step. She might still want to be with you but maybe she needs space. If she is asking about other girls she is worried that you might forget about her.
2006-12-12 05:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes. some girls are just playing stupid sometimes. anyway, so she refuses to get back with you no matter how much you pleaded and she tries to communicate with you...hmmm. Don't respond back to her when she told you she doesn't care. she's just playing games. i know this because i used to be like her. once the begging stops, i would be the one to beg for you, to beg for me. get it? don't play it coo. just be coo. don't show your weakness. it's gay. haha. i'm 19 too and to be in a serious relationship is too much. i would be scared too.
2006-12-12 05:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has serious feelings for you tell her that you love her and would never think of looking for a new girfriend. Another good one is tell her youd go to the ens of the earth to get her back
2006-12-12 05:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋