i am 15 and i like a boy thats 17. my mom knows i have boyfriends and she allows it. its just when ever i do get a boyfriend he's usually 1 year older than me. when she meet my new friend, she had know problem at first, she was nice to him and everything. but when my moms boyfriend whom is also my friend(the 17 year old) cousin, he told her everything i wasnt ready to tell. ~just to let yall know not everybody aren't virgins, all though i am!~ he told her about him not being a virgin and he was going to have a child and he's no good. but in reallity, that was when he was younger. so when he told her that her whole attitude toward him just changed and she dont even know him! and the thing that kills me is that my younger sister had a "friend" that was 2 years older than her and it was all good then, but as soon as its time for me to want something its a big problem. and i truly find this be be unfair.
2006-12-12 04:58:55 · 5 answers · asked by Iesha B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are 15 years old and playing with dynamite from the ages of your boyfriends they all have been driving right ? seems to me like you go for the older guys because they can do things the ones your age can't the next thing you know it will be a loser over 18 who can't get the legal girls to even look at him and he will be supplying you with drinks and drugs quit while you are ahead or your life will be completely destroyed very soon and it will be ALL your fault
2006-12-12 05:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're saying he is going to have a child, and this occurred when he was younger than 17? That is righfully reason for your mother to be concerned, even not considering the age. It shows complete lack of responsibility and respect. I think you should be dating guys that aren't so obviously interested in getting into a girl's pants. Not to be harsh, and he may even be a decent person, but he needs to grow up and if he has or is having a child he has things to worry about. Don't weigh yourself down with it, you're 15, still a child who should be having fun.
2006-12-12 05:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by straightup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I seriously doubt she has a problem with age difference or with his age at all. The problem is that he is going to have a child and that he is no good. The issue is that people don't change that quickly. Don't talk to her about the unfairness of it, she will NEVER budge. If he is really changed he will do what it takes to make her change her mind about him. Just to be safe, I would watch him. Hopefully he is not after the virginity. Besides, if he is serious about you he will wait.
2006-12-12 05:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She prolly dosn't have a prob wit his age it's most likely the issue of him haveing a child that's the problem.
2006-12-12 05:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be lucky that she lets you date at all. It is her rules and her house until you move out.
2006-12-12 05:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋