Ok I dated this guy for 3 months about 2 months ago, and I ended up ending things because he didn't seem into the relationship...didn't call much, busy a lot, things like that. So anyway, he recently started e-mailing and sending me text messages but hasn't asked me out or anything...do you think he's just bored and wants someone to talk to or do you think he realized that he lost a good thing, and is trying to slowly worm his way back in? I would give him another shot because I have missed him. Thanks!
2006-12-10 14:12:18 · 19 answers · asked by *ladybug* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing bout us guys we are a confused bunch. we are told so many different things when it come to women and datin. call, cos that whats she wants. no wait dont call cos then she thinks you are desperate. get my point? he probably is interested and realises the mistake he made with you. he is emailing you cos he like you and wants another chance, to do things differently. give him another go. but if he acts the same, SAY SOMETHIN or break it off again. goodluck!
2006-12-10 14:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a 31 12 months previous single father of two females. For what it incredibly is well worth i think of you're getting used. He could be 28 yet is probable around 17 mentally. a good guy won't flirt with different women folk. He shouldn't whinge approximately money. he's 28, does not he have a job or can he in simple terms no longer handle money well worth a rattling? believe me he will candy communicate you into believing regardless of he needs you to yet as quickly as he thinks he has discovered something greater effective he would be out the door. detect a to blame, mature guy nearer on your age (you have greater in undemanding) and stop dropping time with a egocentric pig. a good relationship should not be stressful, it may actually be fresh.
2016-10-05 03:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably realizing that he lost a good thing. If he keeps calling and emailing you, then ask him to go out. It's not uncommon for a female to ask a guy. I mean if you want to get back with him, someone may have to initiate it. This time around it may be you. He doesn't know how you feel. You broke up with him right. If you really want to give him that chance.
2006-12-10 14:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by DJB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he doesnt want your relationship to end. im not talking about the relationship u both had as boyfriend and girlfriend, but am talking about trying to have some kind of relationship with you so as to not completely lose you. mayb the best way for him to do that, or so he may think, is to try to be your friend. the reason i dont think he's doing this out of boredom is because he's considered as your ex, and ex's dont just try to contact their ex's cos of boredom. they normally want something out of it, like mayb a friendship or to get back together. although, he would have asked u out by now if he wanted u back. u can always, if u want to, ask him yourself what's going on
2006-12-10 14:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's bored and just wants some one to talk to. But you could always be rude and up front and ask him, why. Then again he could be stupid and think that you didnt mean it when you broke things off.
2006-12-10 14:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by mcdermond3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to confront him about it. He's the one who can tell you what is going on since he was the one who behave in that way. Good luck.
2006-12-10 14:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just ask him. Simple.
My guess is that he's been dumped by the other girl he was trying to see when he was with you and now figures he'd try again with you.
:)
2006-12-10 14:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
READ "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU."
www.amazon.com
It will save you alot of energy, time and heartbreak.
Girl, have some respect for yourself and move on. This guy could care less about you.
2006-12-10 15:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by maisie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just wants to be firends again but remember I only know what you wrote.
PS our avatars look almost identical
2006-12-10 14:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously didnt like you if he didnt make an attempt so he is probally just making sure he can get booty calls later and ask him your question not us but more him lol.
2006-12-10 14:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by michael h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋