My wife divorced me for x-mas, would it be regifting if I ate a bullet?

Answer 1

do it there in front her family its the gift that keeps giving

Answer 2

Jeez, what horrible timing. Do not even think about suicide. If you want to get back at her, find someone else; someone with whom you can be happy, even if only for a while. Living well is truly the best revenge. Summon up all your will to get through the holidays. You CAN do it. You should start looking now for a date for New Year's. I know it's the last thing in the world you feel like doing now, but do it anyway. Start the new year on a positive note and celebrate the end of the miserable 2006. Here's to new beginnings.

Answer 3

take it from some one whos been there my first wife and i divorced several years ago right at christmas too so I know how your feeling right now and believe me i have the scars to prove it. she's not worth taking your own life over things will get better and thats how you need to look at things right now your on the bottom so the only way to go is up. after I attempted suicide over my ex several times i might add a friend helped me see that if i had succeded she would of had exactly what she wanted. now 6 years later i am re married and happily too with a 3 year old son . so what ever you do DONT do that stay alive and remember theres more to life to look forward to . and if you need to talk to some one whos been there feel free to email me thororsaxe

Answer 4

I don't really know too much about your situation, but if someone divorces or leaves you, you need to move on and get on with your life. Maybe the problem was you---be honest and see if you need to sharpen yourself up. If she left for her own issues---then you can't do much about it.Eating a bullet? Have a sandwich instead. What good would it do? You would only show her what a self centered sicko does when he can't get a grip. Grow up. There are millions of women out there looking for men---shape up, cut you hair, shine your shoes, put on a smile and go find yourself a nice girl. Best of luck and do enjoy the holidays..please

Answer 5

Dude, no matter what level of pain you're in right now, she is NOT worth it.

If you want my advice, I think you should ask your family for cold, hard cash for Christmas and go do something fun, away from family which may only serve to remind you what you're going through. Do Vegas, or a Cruise, or something wild.

Get through the holidays by treating yourself to the time of your life; it's ok to stick your head in the sand for a week or two during the holiday season; then after the holidays start leaning on family and friends as you go through the grieving process.

Answer 6

Suicide is wrong and it is not really a way out of things. Speaking to you now is a person that tried to end her life because of a breakup. But I found out that there is more to life than the negative, and hurtful things that people do to one another. There is not a person on this earth worth ending your own life for. We were put upon this earth for a purpose what it is we don't know until we have come to our time. There are many people that kill themselves because they were hurt by another person, and there are so many more people out there to live for. Please seek counseling if things are that rough on you or find your self a pen-pal on the net and talk, talking is the best thing in the world to help us all.

Answer 7

Why would you waste your life just because your wife divorced you? Whatever happened in your life, charge it to experience. Sometimes we can even learn important lessons in life in those bad experiences. I for example, learned that life is still worth living even though I am separated from my husband . And I even discovered that life is so precious if you only learn to entrust everything to God and place your hope in Him, you will not be alone. For 15 years , God had proven Himself to be a comforter and a joy giver and most important of all , a wonderful heart mender. Try and taste the goodness of God. Smile, Jesus loves you.

Answer 8

I feel for you, you are not alone. Find some professional help and remember that you have a purpose here. It may not be with her, but you have something to contribute to this planet, don't let it go to waste! You would be surprized how many people would be devestated if you left them in this way. Bless you, hang in there!

Answer 9

No. you would be stooping to her level of idiocy. Talk to a counselor or a friend but don't eat that bullet. The best revenge is to move on and be happy.

Answer 10

NO, do not commit suicide. Alot of people think that when they are at the end of a marriage or relationship. What did you do to her to make her leave? re-think your plans before actually acting on them. Sometimes life sucks, but it does'nt mean you have to leave your life, instead try & help yourself by living it.

Answer 11

The pain is bad now and will get worse before it gets better, but see thats the key word better because it will and always does. I tend to run away from my pain, but in this case I ran to it without even knowing. Let me share my story with you and you tell me if you think I should off my head too K.

I was living in Cali with my husband step son and kids of my own. We were expecting our frist as a married couple. Things started going a bit sour and he left two months into my pregnancy. Then after six months of not being together I went to counceling, changed my ways and never gave up on my family. A mounth after he came out to see the sex of the baby with me he asked for a divorce. I thought well maybe its just the time we have spent away from eachother thats killing it for him so I left my home, friends, job, school life as we know it pretty much and moved out to Tx to rejoin my husband. Two days after I got here I found out he had a grilfriend who he was going to marry as soon as we got divorced. I was eight months pregnant and moved on my own. I never stopped loving him or gave up on us, but he did way before he even asked for the divorce. I see him every day because of our baby and it kills me and hurts and I wanted to die from all the pain, but when I feel like that I take off. This time I couldnt because I used all my funds to move half way around the US. After five months her I am slowly seeing what an *** he really is how full of lies he really was and a part of me is finally seeing the good side of it all. Now I have a chance to find someone that will love me the way I should be loved. He still tells me he loves me and how it would kill him to see me with someone else, but I know he does it to have his cake and eat it too. I refues to be a victum of his games any more. I have had to wake up and take care of this baby from the day it was born by myself without my husband by myside. Do you know what its like not to share something so wonderful with the person you love the person you made the baby with?

Dont ever give up I promise you it will take a lot of time and pain to get through it, but it does get better. You are more then welcome to email me anytime to talk if need be. Good luck!